读过 Terror, Love and Brainwashing 🌕🌕🌕🌕🌗
非常有趣!首先并没有什么容易跌入cult的profile,任何出身任何attachment style的人都有可能,更多的是取决于人生境况(比如重大人生变故),反而是cult的领导者一般都是disorganised attachment style,而且这些人对attachment的不安和执着强烈到变了形,成为他们发展并维持cult的最主要原因(金钱权利这些反而是次要),和成员们建立起disorganised attachment relationship并以此操控他们。其次当人们处在cult的disorganised relationship中的时候,他们部分的cognitive function是下线的(和组织以及领导者相关的),所以没办法理性的理解思考自己的处境,虽然其它日常生活的部分还能正常维持。有时候只要有机会让受害者能接触到组织外的人建立更正常的关系,能帮助他们“回神”/暂时找回自己的理性,就能松动cult对他们的思想控制。disorganised relationship大到国家政权(咳咳...)中到组织(宗教也好,某些极端政治团体也好,甚至有毒的公司)小到家暴,所以这本书里的很多理论对理解家暴也挺有帮助的。最后没有什么人能真的对disorganised relationship免疫,好笑的是同样是disorganised attachment的人更容易抽身,因为他们不会逆来顺受而会尝试夺权,不成功的话就离开建立自己的团体(这里举的例子有Werner Erhard从Scientology里出来后创建了est,即后来的Landmark —— 我看的上本is it cult?就是前Landmark员工写的😂)
作者:
Alexandra Stein
Routledge
2016
- 11
Illustrated with compelling stories from a range of cults and totalitarian systems, from religious to political to commercial, the book defines and analyses the common and identifiable traits that underlie almost all these groups. It focuses on how charismatic, authoritarian leaders control their followers attachment relationships via manipulative social structures and ideologies so that, emotionally and cognitively isolated, they become unable to act in their own survival interests. Using the evolutionary theory of attachment to demonstrate the psychological impact of these environments, and incorporating the latest neuroscientific findings, Stein illustrates how the combined dynamic of terror and love works to break down people s ability to think and behave rationally. From small local cults to global players like ISIS and North Korea, the impact of these movements is widespread and growing.