self-help
此刻是一枝花 豆瓣
作者: 乔恩·卡巴金 译者: 润秋 2008 - 10
《此刻是一枝花》里作者描绘了怎样在日常生活中培养正念的简单途径。正念被认为是佛教禅修的核心,但其精神具有普世意义,对所有人都具有实质上的裨益。正念本质上就是觉醒。很多时候,我们的心处于麻木状态,错失了每个当下的独特之美,无法感知此刻的各种可能性。尽管我们的心习惯于自动运作,无法感受我们生活、成长、感觉、关爱、学习、康复的时刻,但是。我们的心还是天生具有巨大的力量帮助我们清醒地感知这些时刻,并让它们为我们自己造福,为他人造福,为我们生存的这个世界造福。正念需要有规律的培养,就像花园需要精心的照料才能鲜花满院而非杂草丛生。培养吾心,使之觉醒,这就是禅修。正念之美在于,无论我们去向何方,无论我们身在何处,无论我们何时记起,这个花园永远伴随着我们。它既寓含于时间。又超越了时间。
2020年9月2日 已读
散文集合。但是国外引进来还不错的self help书,咋每一本都起这么魔幻的中文翻译名字。。。其实内容在细分领域的专业性和科学性很多大于国内的所谓心理学书。。
这本没有实操性FYI.
self-help 心理 正念
Make Time 豆瓣 Goodreads
7.8 (10 个评分) 作者: Jake Knapp / John Zeratsky Currency 2018 - 9
"A charming manifesto—as well as an intrepid do-it-yourself guide to building smart habits that stick. If you want to achieve more (without going nuts), read this book."—Charles Duhigg, bestselling author of The Power of Habit and Smarter Faster Better
From the New York Times bestselling authors of Sprint, a simple 4-step system for improving focus, finding greater joy in your work, and getting more out of every day.
Nobody ever looked at an empty calendar and said, "The best way to spend this time is by cramming it full of meetings!" or got to work in the morning and thought, Today I'll spend hours on Facebook! Yet that's exactly what we do. Why?
In a world where information refreshes endlessly and the workday feels like a race to react to other people's priorities faster, frazzled and distracted has become our default position. But what if the exhaustion of constant busyness wasn't mandatory? What if you could step off the hamster wheel and start taking control of your time and attention? That's what this book is about.
As creators of Google Ventures' renowned "design sprint," Jake and John have helped hundreds of teams solve important problems by changing how they work. Building on the success of these sprints and their experience designing ubiquitous tech products from Gmail to YouTube, they spent years experimenting with their own habits and routines, looking for ways to help people optimize their energy, focus, and time. Now they've packaged the most effective tactics into a four-step daily framework that anyone can use to systematically design their days. Make Time is not a one-size-fits-all formula. Instead, it offers a customizable menu of bite-size tips and strategies that can be tailored to individual habits and lifestyles.
Make Time isn't about productivity, or checking off more to-dos. Nor does it propose unrealistic solutions like throwing out your smartphone or swearing off social media. Making time isn't about radically overhauling your lifestyle; it's about making small shifts in your environment to liberate yourself from constant busyness and distraction.
A must-read for anyone who has ever thought, If only there were more hours in the day..., Make Time will help you stop passively reacting to the demands of the modern world and start intentionally making time for the things that matter.
2020年6月28日 已读
没有特别的,实用教程小合集。能做到几个tactic确实你的生活会变样。
self-help 时间管理
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck 豆瓣 Goodreads
6.0 (31 个评分) 作者: Mark Manson HarperOne 2016 - 9
In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.
For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.