工具书
论人的成长 豆瓣
作者: [美] 卡尔•罗杰斯 译者: 石孟磊 等 世界图书出版公司北京公司 2015 - 1
作为人本主义心理学的代言人,罗杰斯提出了“个人中心取向”“无条件积极关注”“会心团体疗法”等心理咨询与治疗的概念和技术,从而影响了心理学、教育学、管理学、政治学等各个方面。这些理论至今魅力不减。
罗杰斯认为,在合适的心理氛围下,人们值得信赖,富有积极性、创造性与影响力,能够自我激励并释放出无法想象的潜力。
虽然有人攻击罗杰斯的疗法过于简单,认为其技术只要重复来访者谈话的后几个字,但是,正如欧文•亚龙所说,罗杰斯的“疗法既不简单也不死板”,在这本书中,罗杰斯将为自己代言。
人本主义大师罗杰斯在回顾自己个人经历的同时,指出了他认为个人成长的方法和途径。另外,他还提到了自己对于教育性质的认识以及展望。最后,作者还用自己的哲学思想对世界进行了展望。本书是一本精典的人本主义心理学派的大师著作,对每位读者都有一定的启发和指导意义。
The Art of Making Memories: How to Create and Remember Happy Moments 豆瓣
The third book from the internationally bestselling author of The Little Book of Hygge, Meik Wiking.Every year, we are given a fixed number of days. Some days pass us by without leaving a trace and some days we remember forever. Do you remember your first kiss? Or how the first rays of the spring sun feel? Or how about the best meal you ever had?These memorable experiences are characterized by intensity of perception, depth of feeling or sense of profound significance causing them to stand out in our mind and involve a heightened sense of wonder and awe.But what ingredients produce these happy memories? Why is it that a piece of music, a smell, a taste can take us back to something we had forgotten? And can we learn to create happy memories and be better at holding on to them?Combining research on happiness and mnemonics (learning techniques that aids memory retention or retrieval) Meik Wiking explores how peak experiences are made, stored and remembered. Using data and diaries, interviews, global surveys and studies and conducting real-life behavioural science and happiness experiments, the Happiness Research Institute will answer how we can we create perfect moments. Moments that will go down in history. Moments that will shape who we are.
禅者的初心 豆瓣
8.7 (17 个评分) 作者: 铃木俊隆 译者: 梁永安 海南出版社 2010 - 6
内容简介:
这是一本西方佛子人手一册的禅宗入门书。禅修的心应该始终是一颗初心(初学者的心)。初心是空空如也的,不受各种习性的羁绊。只有保持这颗初心,随时准备好去接受、怀疑,并对所有的可能性敞开,才能如实看待万物的本然面貌,一步接着一步前进,然后在一闪念中证悟到万物的原初本性。
这种禅心的修行全书遍处可见。书中每个章节,都是铃木禅师用最简单的语言,从日常生活的情境切入的,直接或间接地谈到了如何在修行生活和日常生活中保持初心。此外,本书还指导人们如何修行,说明何谓禅生活,禅修是以何种态度和了解为前提的,并且鼓励读者去实现自己的真实本性,自己的禅心。
箭术与禅心 豆瓣 Eggplant.place
Zen in the Art of Archery
8.7 (24 个评分) 作者: [德] 奥根·赫立格尔 译者: 鲁宓 云南人民出版社 2016 - 10
一本奇妙的小书,用文字记述开悟的体验。在禅宗公案和传奇故事中,禅师们在面临无可解的矛盾时,似乎总有一种超越对错二元性的态度,能从中迸出一种全新的东西,我们称之为“悟”。但禅宗不立文字,我们通常只看到“顿悟”的刹那,而看不到在开悟之前或之后的种种过程。
这本《箭术与禅心》的可贵之处在于:一位具有西方理性思想精髓的学者,以客观的态度,亲自深入探究东方的直观智慧,以平实的文字加以分析报道,没有夸大渲染。这种来自异国文化观点的第一手心得报告,没有经过时间或口耳相传的扭曲,也不用背负任何传统的包袱,具有参考价值。
为了追求生命的真义,德国哲学家赫立格尔远赴日本学禅。他追随弓圣阿波研造,修行箭术,但习箭的每一个阶段对他而言都是一个困境,仿佛一则则无解的公案。在师父的引导下,他逐渐放下自我的投射,体验了“当下的真心”,得以一睹那遥远的天际,禅所活生生存在并呼吸着的空间。
狂喜之后 豆瓣
After the Ecstasy, the Laundry: How the Heart Grows Wise on the Spiritual Path
作者: 杰克‧康菲尔德(Jack Kornfield) 译者: 周和君 云南人民出版社 2008 - 3
★ 曾师从阿姜查等著名南传佛教大师,美国最受欢迎的内观禅修师杰克•康菲尔德非常有影响的一本著作。
★ 胡因梦极力推荐,认为是近三十年来描述内心实修转化最具说服力、最真实无欺的经典之作。
★ 相对于开悟后的体验,本书作者更关心的是:“灵修生活所面对的真正挑战不是在深山隐僻处,或意识进入超凡状态:就在当下。”
修行在许多当代人的意识中似乎是很久远的事,然而在21世纪的今天,无论是在具有佛教传统的东方,还是在具有基督教传统的西方,有越来越多的人又重新走上了修行之路。究竟是什么原因促使人们踏上这条心灵之旅,在这一过程中会有什么身心体悟和殊胜体验,以及在此之后人们又将如何继续生活在俗世中,就是本书要告诉你的答案。本书援引了大量进入修行这一过程人们的实例,指出修行之路并非一条光明大道,开悟也并非持续稳定的状态,并且因人而异。更重要的是,毕竟我们不是生活在与世隔绝的修道院或寺庙中的僧人,需要面对许多令人不悦的琐事,才是我们凡夫俗子生活的真实状态。因此,在恐惧、愤怒、爱欲等这些苦痛中修行,才是你灵修的最佳处所;与世间万物和谐相处,才是修行所要达到的最高境界。
身体从未忘记 豆瓣 谷歌图书 Eggplant.place
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
8.7 (41 个评分) 作者: Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (范德考克) 译者: 李智 机械工业出版社 2016 - 3
本书是一部杰作。作者充满感情和同理心的深入视角,令人深信今后对心理创伤幸存者的治疗会日益人性化,极大地拓展了自我调控和疗愈的方式,同时也激发了更多关于创伤及其有效治疗方式的研究创新。作者范德考克通过充分呈现他人工作中令人信服的证据,连同他自己的开拓性探索以及在此过程中获取的经验,证实了身体会记录创伤的经历。除此之外,他开发了一套借助瑜伽、运动和戏剧表演的方法,巧妙地将人们的身体和心灵(以及他们的思想和情感)联系起来。这个新鲜观点是美好和令人欢迎的,并为心理治疗界带来了新的可能性。
How to Not Die Alone 豆瓣 Goodreads Eggplant.place
7.8 (5 个评分) 作者: Logan Ury Simon & Schuster 2021 - 2
A “must-read” ( The Washington Post ) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives—they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.

Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone ) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn:
-What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)
-What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t)
-How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)
-How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)
-How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)
-Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway)

This “data-driven” ( Time ), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.
The Art of Thinking Clearly 豆瓣 Goodreads Goodreads
Die Kunst des klaren Denkens: 52 Denkfehler, die Sie besser anderen überlassen
作者: Rolf Dobelli 译者: Griffin, Nicky Harper 2013 - 5
Have you ever . . .
Invested time in something that, in hindsight, just wasn't worth it?
Paid too much in an eBay auction?
Continued to do something you knew was bad for you?
Sold stocks too late, or too early?
Taken credit for success, but blamed failure on external circumstances?
Backed the wrong horse?
These are examples of what the author calls cognitive biases, simple errors all of us make in day-to-day thinking. But by knowing what they are and how to identify them, we can avoid them and make better choices: whether in dealing with personal problems or business negotiations, trying to save money or earn profits, or merely working out what we really want in life—and strategizing the best way to get it.
Already an international bestseller, The Art of Thinking Clearly distills cutting-edge research from behavioral economics, psychology, and neuroscience into a clever, practical guide for anyone who's ever wanted to be wiser and make better decisions. A novelist, thinker, and entrepreneur, Rolf Dobelli deftly shows that in order to lead happier, more prosperous lives, we don't need extra cunning, new ideas, shiny gadgets, or more frantic hyperactivity—all we need is less irrationality.
Simple, clear, and always surprising, this indispensable book will change the way you think and transform your decision making—at work, at home, every day. From why you shouldn't accept a free drink to why you should walk out of a movie you don't like, from why it's so hard to predict the future to why you shouldn't watch the news, The Art of Thinking Clearly helps solve the puzzle of human reasoning.
費解的顯然:費登奎斯入門 谷歌图书 豆瓣
The Elusive Obvious or Basic Feldenkrais
作者: 摩謝•費登奎斯 译者: 易之新 心靈工坊文化 2016 - 8 其它标题: 費解的顯然
身心學三大學派之一
費登奎斯方法的最佳入門書
「你在人生的任何時間都可以重新開始,只要你相信你的身體系統並不是固定不變、無法自主的;若是無法改變,也只是你相信如此罷了。」
――摩謝•費登奎斯
摩謝•費登奎斯因為自身膝蓋受傷的機緣,潛心研究自己的動作與身心關係,開創出身心學(Somatics)三大學派之一的「費登奎斯方法」,不但幫助自己恢復功能,也幫助許多身心痛苦的人,並推廣到世界各地,促進許多人的潛能得以更有效的發揮。
《費解的顯然》介紹了費登奎斯的理論與實務,其方法結合物理學、心理學、生理學、解剖學、神經科學、兒童發展、學習理論等與身心有關的專業知識與經驗。費登奎斯以輕鬆、有趣、簡明又不失深刻的方式向讀者說話,從自身經歷的故事出發,將其所發展的身心工作做了觀念上清晰的整理,是最適合初學者的入門指引。
費登奎斯在個案身上製造出許多「奇蹟」的效果,但他說這不是奇蹟,只是跳脫傳統醫學的思維架構,不從「治療或矯正」的觀點看人,而是協助人藉著「學習」,開發出自己原本就擁有的潛力,重新獲得選擇的自由。
《費解的顯然》對學習費登奎斯身心方法的專業追求者是無價的珍寶,對一般讀者則是深具啟發的好書。費登奎斯的思考與知識衝擊我們平常視為理所當然的觀念,挑戰缺少選擇自由的生活慣性,幫助我們看到新的可能,讓自己的特質、潛能得以自然發揮,邁向愈益健康的身心境界。
「這本書倡導的哲理歷經時代的變遷仍閃閃發亮。無論讀者是否經驗過費登奎斯如此溫柔待人對己的工作方法,這本書都值得一讀。」
――呂旭亞
「這本簡明又深刻的書為費登奎斯博士的思想與方法提供基本的認識,他曾用這個方法幫助全世界成千上萬的人。」
――保羅•如賓
疲劳自救手册 豆瓣
OVERCOMING CHRONIC FATIGUE
6.8 (11 个评分) 作者: [英] 玛丽·伯吉斯 / [英] 特鲁迪·查尔德 译者: 张淼 后浪丨广东旅游出版社 2021 - 11
别拿疲劳不当回事儿,
只需9步,就能让你重新元气满格
2位伦敦国王学院疲劳认知行为治疗专家
20余年心血力作
经临床研究试验和读者亲测有效
◎ 编辑推荐
☆ 2位伦敦国王学院疲劳认知行为治疗专家20余年心血力作!
☆ 不止从睡眠、生活习惯等常规方面入手,更有一整套认知行为疗法疲劳自救指南,帮你从思想到行动、由内而外地扫清疲劳,重新元气满格!
☆ 做好这9步,帮你终结疲劳的恶性循环,找回元气满满的自己!
◆ 观察你的活动与睡眠模式,了解疲劳是如何对你产生影响的
◆ 设定让自己生活更愉快、更平衡的目标
◆ 改善睡眠质量,稳定活动和休息模式
◆ 增加活动量、改变活动内容
◆ 管理疲劳相关症状
◆ 克服无益的思维模式
◆ 克服与疲劳有关的担忧、压力与焦虑
◆ 克服康复中的障碍,应对症状反复
◆ 巩固努力成果,为未来做准备
☆ 29种简单易上手的工具图表,手把手教你成为自己的元气管理师:疲劳恶性循环图、活动日记、睡眠日记、生活饼图、目标分解表、活动计划表、目标完成记录表、任务专注练习表、无益想法日记、责任饼图、新想法日记、识别关于自己的核心信念工作表、质疑核心信念记录表、行为实验记录表、新核心信念形成表、新核心信念记录表、暴露任务记录表、进展记录表、进展评估表……
◎ 内容简介
在日常生活中,你是否有过这样的经历?
睡不着,睡不够,爱做梦,易醒来,醒后没精神;经常性头痛、喉咙痛、肌肉痛、关节痛,四肢发麻,手脚汗湿;一点声响就紧张难受,一起身就头晕眼花,追个公交就喘不来气,动不动就感冒肚子不舒服;忘东忘西,笨手笨脚,话到嘴边就卡住,芝麻小事就抓狂……
这些都是慢性疲劳的症状,轻则让我们的生活质量受损,重则影响学业、工作、家庭及人际关系。
本书由两位在疲劳领域有着二三十年经验的认知行为治疗专家撰写。其目的是帮助那些受疲劳问题(包括慢性疲劳)困扰的人,在不需要医生指导的情况下,克服各种障碍,摆脱疲劳问题。书中提供的9大改善身心状况的步骤、29种简单易上手的工具图表以及众多针对疲劳康复过程中不同环节的策略,都是根据认知行为疗法的相关原则设计并经专业治疗实践证实有效的。有了它们,你就能从疲劳中找回元气满满的自己,重新变得活力四射!
理性的多向思考者 豆瓣
Pourquoi trop penser rend manipulable: protégez votre mental de l'emprise
作者: [法] 克莉司徳·布提可南 译者: 杨恩毅 中国法制出版社 2020 - 1
在高敏感的多向思考者身边工作长达二十多年,根据丰富的临床经验,作者已经能够准确地辨识多向思考者(被操控者)和操控者的人格特性,同时也能研究出将两者联系在一起的奇特元素。本书中,作者会精准分析两者的特点、互动方式,并为多向思考者提供详尽的建议,帮助其摆脱他人的不良影响,重拾自信和理性。
Let's Be Friends 豆瓣
作者: Shapiro, Lawrence E.; Holmes, Julia; 2008 - 11
Building positive friendships is a critical part of a child's development. When adults look back on their childhoods, they rate their friendships as one of the most important factors in their happiness. But researchers report that half of children have difficulty making and keeping friends. These problems predispose them to lifelong relationship challenges. What's more, parents report that they rarely know what to do to help their children make friends. Social problems in childhood may lead to more serious problems in adolescence and adulthood, so it's wise to help your child with these skills now. The activities in this book offer you effective tools for helping your child become a better friend-maker. The activities in Let's Be Friends teach kids a wide variety of social skills including the making and keeping of new friends, finding friends with common interests, ways of coping with rejection, and tips for developing give and take in relationships. With practice, the skills in this book can help youngsters locate support during transitions, build self-esteem, and develop into healthy, resilient adults.
人人都在晒,凭什么你出彩 豆瓣
5.3 (6 个评分) 作者: 【美】奥斯丁•克莱恩 译者: 张舜芬 / 徐立妍 北京联合出版公司 2015 - 4
1. 《纽约时报》、亚马逊畅销书排名第1位、好评如潮的创意营销书。《出版人周刊》称其在社交网络时代“在安全范围内提供了实用的自我营销策略”。
2. TED演讲者创意分享:晒对了,全世界都为你点赞:别人在朋友圈、微博晒自拍、晒孩子、晒吃喝,你来晒创意、晒灵感、晒工作、晒收获,发出自己的声音,找到伙伴,机会也会主动找上门!
3. 10堂创意课+手绘涂鸦,所有人都能轻松读完、迅速学会的创意小书:10堂自修课直观教你学会用微信、微博等社交媒体玩转社交媒体,不论从事何种职业,都能在本书中找到提升能力水平、改变思维方式、激发创意灵感的绝妙方法。
这是一本关于社交网络分享的创意集合。如今的社交网络似乎只是“刷”时间的娱乐方式,但晒自拍、晒食物的行为并不能真正帮助你做出更有意义的事情,而作者努力给出的建议,是教你如何利用社交媒体晒出有意义的东西,进而吸引同好,让机会找到你。作者提供了10条简单的自我营销之道,短小精悍但内容丰富。读者可以从中收获灵感,“晒”出不一样的自己。本书语言风格诙谐、幽默,配以大量的手绘插图、涂鸦,辨识度高。
《出版人周刊》:有些人天生就懂得行销自己,但也有些人觉得要把作品推到世人眼前,简直困难得不得了。如果你属于后者,这本书会教你几招有效的方法,让你既能分享作品,又不必离开自己的舒适圈,书中的建议聪明又有用。
《图书馆期刊》:这本书和《偷师学艺》都堪称经典,不管经过多久,读者都可以不断回头从书中找到依然实用的建议与秘诀。如果你认为这本书是写给有心从事创作的年轻人,那你就错了,因为对每个有心创作,或是想重拾创作的人来说,这本书都能大大鼓舞他们。
丹麦人为什么幸福 豆瓣 Goodreads
The Little Book of Hygge: The Danish Way to Live Well
7.3 (18 个评分) 作者: [丹麦] 迈克·维金 译者: 林娟 中信出版社 2017 - 6
根据联合国的《世界幸福报告》,丹麦已经有四年被评为世界上最幸福的国家。那他们的秘诀是什么呢?是因为享受童话般的自然美景?完美地平衡生活与工作?有高度安全感的福利保障?还是因为会抽出大把时间共享温馨舒适好时光?这些是北欧国家的共性,而让丹麦脱颖而出的幸福关键词是:HYGGE。
HYGGE作为2016柯林斯年度热词,却很难准确地译成中文。一支蜡烛,一双羊毛袜,一个壁炉,一杯热咖啡,一件宽松毛衣,窗台上铺满靠垫和毛毯,锅里的炖牛肉香气四溢,木地板咯吱作响,低垂的灯散发出柔和的光,温暖归家的主人。这些都很HYGGE。
还有谁比迈克•维金更能胜任你的HYGGE向导呢?他是哥本哈根幸福研究所的首席执行官,数年来一直致力于研究丹麦人幸福指数如此之高的原因。从选择合适的灯光照明到计划一个愉快的晚餐聚会,再到安排一整年的HYGGE生活,本书将带领读者体会隐藏在日常中的细微幸福,探寻更美好生活的种种可能。
Big Friendship 豆瓣
作者: Aminatou Sow / Ann Friedman Simon & Schuster 2020 - 7
A close friendship is one of the most influential and important relationships a human life can contain. Anyone will tell you that! But for all the rosy sentiments surrounding friendship, most people don’t talk much about what it really takes to stay close for the long haul.
Now two friends, Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman, tell the story of their equally messy and life-affirming Big Friendship in this honest and hilarious book that chronicles their first decade in one another’s lives. As the hosts of the hit podcast Call Your Girlfriend, they’ve become known for frank and intimate conversations. In this book, they bring that energy to their own friendship—its joys and its pitfalls.
Aminatou and Ann define Big Friendship as a strong, significant bond that transcends life phases, geographical locations, and emotional shifts. And they should know: the two have had moments of charmed bliss and deep frustration, of profound connection and gut-wrenching alienation. They have weathered life-threatening health scares, getting fired from their dream jobs, and one unfortunate Thanksgiving dinner eaten in a car in a parking lot in Rancho Cucamonga. Through interviews with friends and experts, they have come to understand that their struggles are not unique. And that the most important part of a Big Friendship is making the decision to invest in one another again and again.
An inspiring and entertaining testament to the power of society’s most underappreciated relationship, Big Friendship will invite you to think about how your own bonds are formed, challenged, and preserved. It is a call to value your friendships in all of their complexity. Actively choose them. And, sometimes, fight for them.
超越PISA 豆瓣
world class
作者: [德] 安德烈亚斯 施莱歇尔 译者: 徐瑾劼 上海教育出版社 2018
在信息化、全球化的背景下,我们的学校从未像今日这样急需培养孩子应对快速变化的能力,为未来尚未出现的工作未雨绸缪,帮助他们面对人类还无法想象的挑战。而目前的学校系统却仍然还在延续工业化时代的学校模式,追求标准化和统一性。基于这样的现实,作者借助PISA\TALIS等国际大型教育测评数据结果,在深入研究了全球70多个国家和地区的教育改革实践后,发现教育改革非但是必须的而且还是可以成功的。通过对国家/地区成功案例的剖析,包括中国上海、芬兰、新加坡、越南等具有不同优势的教育体系,分别对教师教育政策、教育质量与公平、教育领导人才培养等方面提出了改善方案。
Affect Regulation, Mentalization, and the Development of Self 豆瓣
作者: Peter Fonagy / Gyorgy Gergely Other Press 2005 - 4
Winner of the 2003 Gradiva Award and the 2003 Goethe Award for Psychoanalytic Scholarship

Arguing for the importance of attachment and emotionality in the developing human consciousness, four prominent analysts explore and refine the concepts of mentalization and affect regulation. Their bold, energetic, and encouraging vision for psychoanalytic treatment combines elements of developmental psychology, attachment theory, and psychoanalytic technique. Drawing extensively on case studies and recent analytic literature to illustrate their ideas, Fonagy, Gergely, Jurist, and Target offer models of psychotherapy practice that can enable the gradual development of mentalization and affect regulation even in patients with long histories of violence or neglect.
被忽视的孩子 豆瓣 谷歌图书
Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect
8.3 (28 个评分) 作者: [美]乔尼丝·韦布(Jonice Webb) / [美]克里斯蒂娜·穆塞洛 译者: 王诗溢 / 李沁芸 机械工业出版社 2018 - 10
还记得你的童年吗?或多或少,每个人都记得点点滴滴的童年往事。
《被忽视的孩子》这本书会帮助你意识到童年时那些“没有发生”的事、那些你“不记得”的事,向你展现未发生之事的后果:掌控你生命的无形之力。
童年遭受的情感忽视,会长期损害你的自尊、情感和对生活的热爱。
“童年情感忽视”领域开创者韦布博士,20年来专注该领域的咨询和研究,深度结合依恋理论和情商理论,撰写出这部开创性作品,帮你逐步掌握童年未能培养的情感技能,走出情感真空,与他人和世界重建情感连接。为父母提供有效方法,终结代际恶性循环,抚育出情感成熟的孩子;为咨询师提供有效工具,帮助存在童年情感忽视问题的来访者。
如何让孩子自觉又主动 豆瓣
The Yes Brain
作者: [美] 丹尼尔·西格尔 / [美] 蒂娜·佩恩·布赖森 译者: 黄珏苹 2020 - 7
他是谷歌、微软等科技巨头推崇的人际生物学创立者。
他的第七感理论被“情商之父”丹尼尔·戈尔曼誉为“堪与弗洛伊德的潜意识理论、达尔文的进化论齐名”。
他的“全脑教养法”理论风靡全球,影响百万家庭教育理念。
他就是融合心理学、脑科学与网络科学的先锋——丹尼尔·西格尔。
全球知名脑科学家、儿童积极心理学家丹尼尔·西格尔关注教育长期目标,“开放式大脑”是他继“第七感”“全脑教养法”等风靡全球的理论后提出的全新概念。
“开放式大脑”源自大脑中一种特别的神经回路,它能让孩子拥有四大关键特质:稳定情绪的平衡力、应对挑战的复原力、审视自己的洞察力、理解他人的共情力。
9项实操策略,3色沟通模型,多个育儿难题应用场景,结合启发性自测题和趣味性亲子漫画,帮助父母和孩子一起轻松培养开放式大脑,让孩自觉主动地应对当下生活,迎接未来挑战。
斯坦福大学心理学教授、美国艺术与科学院院士卡罗尔·德韦克,临床心理学家、育儿专家、《纽约时报》畅销书作者温迪·莫格尔,北京大学心理与认知科学学院副教授、博士生导师张昕,新浪微博家庭教育专家、亲子沟通导师林小暖bella联袂推荐。
The Manager's Path 豆瓣 Goodreads
9.7 (6 个评分) 作者: Camille Fournier O′Reilly 2017 - 3
Managing people is difficult wherever you work. But in the tech industry, where management is also a technical discipline, the learning curve can be brutal—especially when there are few tools, texts, and frameworks to help you. In this practical guide, author Camille Fournier (tech lead turned CTO) takes you through each stage in the journey from engineer to technical manager.
From mentoring interns to working with senior staff, you’ll get actionable advice for approaching various obstacles in your path. This book is ideal whether you’re a new manager, a mentor, or a more experienced leader looking for fresh advice. Pick up this book and learn how to become a better manager and leader in your organization.
Begin by exploring what you expect from a manager
Understand what it takes to be a good mentor, and a good tech lead
Learn how to manage individual members while remaining focused on the entire team
Understand how to manage yourself and avoid common pitfalls that challenge many leaders
Manage multiple teams and learn how to manage managers
Learn how to build and bootstrap a unifying culture in teams