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The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up 豆瓣 Goodreads
7.5 (8 个评分) 作者: Marie Kondo Ten Speed Press 2014 - 10
Despite constant efforts to declutter your home, do papers still accumulate like snowdrifts and clothes pile up like a tangled mess of noodles?
Japanese cleaning consultant Marie Kondo takes tidying to a whole new level, promising that if you properly simplify and organize your home once, you'll never have to do it again. Most methods advocate a room-by-room or little-by-little approach, which doom you to pick away at your piles of stuff forever. The KonMari Method, with its revolutionary category-by-category system, leads to lasting results. In fact, none of Kondo's clients have lapsed (and she still has a three-month waiting list).
With detailed guidance for determining which items in your house "spark joy" (and which don't), this international best seller featuring Tokyo's newest lifestyle phenomenon will help you clear your clutter and enjoy the unique magic of a tidy home - and the calm, motivated mindset it can inspire.
How to Keep House While Drowning 豆瓣
7.7 (6 个评分) 作者: KC Davis LPC S&S/Simon Element
This revolutionary approach to cleaning and organizing helps free you from feeling ashamed or overwhelmed by a messy home.
If you’re struggling to stay on top of your to-do list, you probably have a good reason: anxiety, fatigue, depression, ADHD, or lack of support. For therapist KC Davis, the birth of her second child triggered a stress-mess cycle. The more behind she felt, the less motivated she was to start. She didn’t fold a single piece of laundry for seven months. One life-changing realization restored her sanity—and the functionality of her home: You don’t work for your home; your home works for you.
In other words, messiness is not a moral failing. A new sense of calm washed over her as she let go of the shame-based messaging that interpreted a pile of dirty laundry as “I can never keep up” and a chaotic kitchen as “I’m a bad mother.” Instead, she looked at unwashed clothes and thought, “I am alive,” and at stacks of dishes and thought, “I cooked my family dinner three nights in a row.”
Building on this foundation of self-compassion, KC devised the powerful practical approach that has exploded in popularity through her TikTok account, @domesticblisters. The secret is to simplify your to-do list and to find creative workarounds that accommodate your limited time and energy. In this book, you’ll learn exactly how to customize your cleaning strategy and rebuild your relationship with your home, including:
-How to see chores as kindnesses to your future self, not as a reflection of your worth
-How to start by setting priorities
-How to stagger tasks so you won’t procrastinate
-How to clean in quick bursts within your existing daily routine
-How to use creative shortcuts to transform a room from messy to functional
With KC’s help, your home will feel like a sanctuary again. It will become a place to rest, even when things aren’t finished. You will move with ease, and peace and calm will edge out guilt, self-criticism, and endless checklists. They have no place here.
2022年7月30日 已读
我误会了,以为这书是介绍如何在经济下行时如何保住自己的住房不被银行收走。
书实际是讲在觉得压力大的时候如何做家务。
读完了发现,书名和内容其实并不相配。本书的内容,重点不是如何做家务,而是如何不让家务加重你的压力。整本书大部分都是在给压力大不想做家务的人做心理建设,说家务不用尽善尽美之类的话。压力大时如何做家务?能做多少做多少。只要家能将就运行,先照顾自己要紧。

作者给出的建议:1. 家务,并不能反映你的个人价值。做得好,没啥,做不好,也不代表你人不行。2. 今天做家务照顾自己和家人。3. 家务做到能保证家庭能正常运作就行。4. 必要时寻求帮助。5. 远离批评你的人。6. 当你压力山大喘不过气儿时,先照顾自己。

书中并无太多的好的家务建议。 不如《smply clean》好。
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