【内容简介】
性侵的案发现场，隔绝的私密空间，被称为“黑箱”，而揭开这个“黑箱”时，暴露出来的则是调查机构与司法体系中的更为巨大的“黑箱”。
本书是日本#MeToo运动核心事件全纪实。2015年，4月3日，伊藤诗织就工作签证问题与当时TBS电视台华盛顿分局长、首相晋三传记作者山口敬之相约进餐会谈，却遭对方性侵。之后的一年，面对媒体、社会、司法的重重壁垒，她不断诉诸法律……为何司法系统无法制裁伤害女性的人？作为弱势群体的女性，在社会不公、大众冷漠、舆论暴力兴盛的今天，应当如何生存、如何自救？
“在日本，女性公开承认遭受性侵不可想象，我并非勇敢，只是别无选择。”
【编辑推荐】
•日本#MeToo运动核心事件全纪实，非虚构版《房思琪的初恋乐园》
•作为事件当事人，作者伊藤诗织是日本首位公开长相和姓名控诉性侵的女性
•作为独立女性，从迷茫无助，到勇敢发声。凭一己之力改变社会认知，以坚韧之姿直面司法壁垒
•作为资深记者，用坦诚态度记录内心感受，用冷静笔触解析事件全过程，用莫大勇气反思社会沉疴
•荣获日本第7届自由报道协会奖大奖，授权全球多个语种
•BBC为其制作的纪录片《日本之耻》引发全球热议
•梁鸿、蒋方舟、苏枕书、淡豹、陈希我合力推荐
【名人推荐】
当#MeToo运动开始在全球范围内发酵、扩大之后，人们突然发现，在权力结构的深处，女性地位并没有真的得到提高。我认为，如果#MeToo运动能够真的深入下去，那么将发生的社会变革决不仅限于男女关系层面的变革，而是对深层文化偏见的动摇，对权力结构的重新设计都会产生巨大影响。它是人类文明发展的又一次契机。但让人担心的是，如果#MeToo只是被当作一段时间内的“新闻”，那么灰尘下落之地，将无人涉足，也注定会被遗忘。
——梁鸿 著名作家，学者
不知道会不会有那样的时代到来：人们读到这本书，读到我们这一代人的血泪，会非常震惊，像我们常常痛惜过去人们的遭遇一样痛惜我们的遭遇。这是诗织的抗争与记录带来的重要意义，我们都在这场战争里。
——苏枕书 青年作家
这是一本关于“日本之耻”的书。作为“耻感文化”之国，日本人的“耻”是否包括性之“耻”？在性中强奸是否是“耻”中之“耻”？伊藤诗织的遭遇让我们看到日本社会对强奸之“耻”的漠视，相反，受害人的控诉却被视为不知“耻”。
——陈希我 作家

It thrills us and torments us. It controls our thoughts, destroys our lives, and it’s all we live for. Yet we almost never speak of it. And as a buried force in our lives, desire remains largely unexplored—until now. Over the past eight years, journalist Lisa Taddeo has driven across the country six times to embed herself with ordinary women from different regions and backgrounds. The result, Three Women, is the deepest nonfiction portrait of desire ever written and one of the most anticipated books of the year.
We begin in suburban Indiana with Lina, a homemaker and mother of two whose marriage, after a decade, has lost its passion. She passes her days cooking and cleaning for a man who refuses to kiss her on the mouth, protesting that “the sensation offends” him. To Lina’s horror, even her marriage counselor says her husband’s position is valid. Starved for affection, Lina battles daily panic attacks. When she reconnects with an old flame through social media, she embarks on an affair that quickly becomes all-consuming.
In North Dakota we meet Maggie, a seventeen-year-old high school student who finds a confidant in her handsome, married English teacher. By Maggie’s account, supportive nightly texts and phone calls evolve into a clandestine physical relationship, with plans to skip school on her eighteenth birthday and make love all day; instead, he breaks up with her on the morning he turns thirty. A few years later, Maggie has no degree, no career, and no dreams to live for. When she learns that this man has been named North Dakota’s Teacher of the Year, she steps forward with her story—and is met with disbelief by former schoolmates and the jury that hears her case. The trial will turn their quiet community upside down.
Finally, in an exclusive enclave of the Northeast, we meet Sloane—a gorgeous, successful, and refined restaurant owner—who is happily married to a man who likes to watch her have sex with other men and women. He picks out partners for her alone or for a threesome, and she ensures that everyone’s needs are satisfied. For years, Sloane has been asking herself where her husband’s desire ends and hers begins. One day, they invite a new man into their bed—but he brings a secret with him that will finally force Sloane to confront the uneven power dynamics that fuel their lifestyle.
Based on years of immersive reporting, and told with astonishing frankness and immediacy, Three Women is a groundbreaking portrait of erotic longing in today’s America, exposing the fragility, complexity, and inequality of female desire with unprecedented depth and emotional power. It is both a feat of journalism and a triumph of storytelling, brimming with nuance and empathy, that introduces us to three unforgettable women—and one remarkable writer—whose experiences remind us that we are not alone.

没有女人天生是母亲
洞幽察微的生育记录，道出女人的焦虑与煎熬
感谢时代，生育终于也和婚姻一样成为了可讨论的问题
怀孕生子不仅区分了男人和女人，也区分了女人和女人。怀孕生产后，女人对于存在的意义的理解发生了巨变。她体内存在另一个人，孩子出生后便受她的意识所管辖。孩子在身边时，她做不了自己；孩子不在时她也做不了自己。人类的每一位成员都会经历从出生到独立这一异常艰辛的过程，而这一过程必须征用某个女人的一段生命。
《成为母亲》忠实地呈现了这段生命。它是一种寻常生活从不可见、不可感，向激烈的热情、爱与奴役转变的过程，它还是一种束缚，一种妥协。
身为女人，成为母亲是什么感受？照顾一个幼小的婴儿又是什么感觉？而当孩子长大，有了自己的意识，母亲又作何感想？英国作家蕾切尔·卡斯克记下了自己那一年包含多重面向的的经历：个人自由、睡眠和时间的终结，对人性和艰苦工作的重新认识，追寻爱的真谛，游走在疯狂和死亡之间，对婴幼儿的情感体验，对母乳喂养的思考……