心理治疗
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone 豆瓣 Goodreads 谷歌图书
9.0 (42 个评分) 作者: Lori Gottlieb Houghton Mifflin Harcourt 2019 - 4
One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.
With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.
Becoming Myself 豆瓣
Becoming Myself: A Psychiatrist's Memoir
作者: Irvin D. Yalom Basic Books 2017 - 10
Irvin D. Yalom has made a career of investigating the lives of others. In this profound memoir, he turns his writing and his therapeutic eye on himself. He opens his story with a nightmare: He is twelve, and is riding his bike past the home of an acne-scarred girl. Like every morning, he calls out, hoping to befriend her, "Hello Measles!" But in his dream, the girl's father makes Yalom understand that his daily greeting had hurt her. For Yalom, this was the birth of empathy; he would not forget the lesson. As Becoming Myself unfolds, we see the birth of the insightful thinker whose books have been a beacon to so many. This is not simply a man's life story, Yalom's reflections on his life and development are an invitation for us to reflect on the origins of our own selves and the meanings of our lives.
2022年9月15日 已读
【2022年已读052】不是每个作家都擅长叙写自己,并且在描写自己的人生时,作家一定会暴露出思想和世界观方面的短板。亚隆的传记不如他的长篇小说那般凝练、吸引人,甚至当他采用对话体让“亚隆医生”去和年轻时的自己谈论人生困境时,显得并不那么能直面自己的痛苦。而把自己与父母之间的冲突仅仅放置在经典美国现代叙事的父子关系框架中去谈,真是令我这样曾深深崇拜亚隆的读者难以接受。读这本书,我的最大收获是又一次了解到,要不断地走出去,才能成为自己;亚隆谈自己与家人一起遍历欧亚、在各种机构访学、写作的经历,是我比较喜欢的部分。
回忆录 心理治疗 美国
Why Buddhism is True 豆瓣
8.8 (13 个评分) 作者: Robert Wright Simon & Schuster 2017 - 8
Why Buddhism is True: The Science and Philosophy of Meditation and Enlightenment is a 2017 book by journalist and evolutionary psychologist Robert Wright. As of August 2017, the book had peaked at The New York Times No. 4 bestseller in hardcover nonfiction.
In Why Buddhism is True, Wright advocates a secular, Westernized form of Buddhism focusing on the practice of mindfulness meditation and stripped of supernatural beliefs such as reincarnation. He further argues that more widespread practice of meditation could lead to a more reflective and empathetic population and reduce political tribalism. In line with his background, Wright draws heavily on evolutionary biology and evolutionary psychology to defend the correctness of Buddhism's diagnosis of the causes of human suffering. He argues the modern psychological idea of the modularity of mind resonates with the Buddhist teaching of no-self (anatman).
2022年7月1日 已读
【2022年已读038】写得啰里啰嗦的,而且西方人谈以“正念”思想来指导生活的书已经够多了,不缺这一本。真对这些内容感兴趣,不如直接诵读佛经和参考当代高僧大德们的说法,比西方作者们故作姿态地对佛教信仰中的超自然内容避之不谈以显示自己的“科学性”强多了也令人感觉亲切多了。但本书仍然有个优点,就是它以多数人能接受的方式涉及了“无我”这一通常会令西方人闻之色变(真的是闻之色变,我的亲身经历;它似乎对个人至上的西方人会造成存在性的巨大冲击)的大乘佛法核心概念。
【2017/12/13想读】今天被一个病人在团体治疗中机关枪般地向我责问了好几分钟为什么医院里要讲来自佛教理念的mindfulness后摔门而去,根本让我插不进话,简直目瞪口呆。然后一个经历过类似场面的治疗师在安慰我过后给我推荐了这本书,说里面有不少实证内容。
哲学 心理治疗 美国
Attachment in Psychotherapy 豆瓣
作者: David J. Wallin PhD The Guilford Press 2015 - 4
2022年2月24日 已读
【2022年已读015】五年前就买了这本书,最近才因为上一个依恋理论的课把它看了。作者写得非常清晰易读,针对不同依恋风格的病人所造成的差异化的人际模式以及移情关系所给出的临床建议也非常具有可操作性。实在是一本可以摆在案头用来常常参考的宝典,我都后悔当时没有买不易磨损的精装本。
心理治疗 美国
The Gift of Therapy 豆瓣
作者: Irvin Yalom Harper Perennial 2009 - 5
The culmination of master psychiatrist Dr. Irvin D. Yalom's more than thirty-five years in clinical practice, The Gift of Therapy is a remarkable and essential guidebook that illustrates through real case studies how patients and therapists alike can get the most out of therapy. The bestselling author of Love's Executioner shares his uniquely fresh approach and the valuable insights he has gained—presented as eighty-five personal and provocative "tips for beginner therapists," including: Let the patient matter to you Acknowledge your errors Create a new therapy for each patient Do home visits (Almost) never make decisions for the patient Freud was not always wrong A book aimed at enriching the therapeutic process for a new generation of patients and counselors, Yalom's Gift of Therapy is an entertaining, informative, and insightful read for anyone with an interest in the subject.
2021年11月12日 已读
都是肺腑之言,非常适合新手读的一本好书。好几年前刚学咨询时买的,错过了最佳时机最近才读,却发现稍嫌浅显了些。大约也可以探知亚隆会是在工作中话比较多的那种治疗师,但不妨碍我对他的崇拜。这本书如果有什么不足的话就是过于人本了,今后假如我有机会写类似这样一个题目,我会强调治疗师的自我照顾。
心理学 心理治疗 美国
心理咨询的伦理与实践 豆瓣
作者: 莱恩·斯佩里 2012 - 6
《心理咨询的伦理与实践》以一种简洁、浅显易懂的方式,试图拓宽伦理研究中的传统观点,纳入一些与学生和临床工作者的个人奋斗和专业需要患息相关的课题。专业伦理中一些传统的金科玉律在书中得到了详细的讨论:保密、知情同意、权力的使用、胜任力以及专业职责等。《心理咨询的伦理与实践》相当详细地涉及了专业伦理传统的核心精华--保密、知情同意、利益冲突与界限、胜任力,还倡导咨询机构的人事部门把伦理问题视为个人发展与专业发展的挑战这样一种观点。《心理咨询的伦理与实践》还深入讨论了咨询师们在日常工作中已经碰到或即将碰到的一些重要问题,比如组织伦理、美德伦理,并以一种扩展的视角看待多元文化的伦理问题--既关注团体价值观,也关注宗教和灵性问题。学习促进者推动读者学习和记忆是《心理咨询的伦理与实践》的另外一个基本特征。每一章都包括了学习目标、大量的案例、关键概念和术语的定义、图表,以及包括重要术语的词典(附录B)。每一个章节都超越了专业伦理守则,即其他教科书的传统焦点,强调咨询师和治疗师能够在个人及专业生活中成长并达致卓越的方法。这本书还涉及了组织伦理--其他教材没有提到的话题,因为诊所、机构或者第三方付费的组织动力会显著影响咨询师与治疗师的伦理行为。《心理咨询的伦理与实践》还特别关注对灵性和宗教问题的伦理思考,以及在咨询和治疗中可供选择的干预方法,包括使用灵性和其他干预方法可能带给咨询师和治疗师的法律诉讼。
心理咨询面谈技术(第四版)(万千心理) 豆瓣
作者: John Sommers-Flanagan / Rita Sommers-Flanagan 译者: 陈祉妍 中国轻工业出版社 2014 - 1
这是一本让人爱不释手的经典教材。本书几乎囊括了心理咨询初学者所需要了解的关于面谈的一切事情:从临床面谈的基本理论到各种实践技术,从非指导性的技术到各种高级的指导性技术,从一般的面谈过程和阶段到与特殊群体的面谈……更有大量的实际案例与临床趣闻。经过全面的修订,新版对咨询面谈的阐释更加透彻、深刻,文笔更加精彩、简洁。新版主要特色包括:
● 更强调将科学研究与临床实践紧密结合。
● 增加全新的一章,主要是关于特别不愿意参与临床面谈的来访者和灾后抚慰等对临床面谈提出特殊要求的情境。
● 增加了有关动机面谈、焦点解决以及建构主义方法的全新内容。
无论是心理咨询的初学者,还是已具有相当临床经验的心理健康工作者,阅读本书都能让你获益良多。
2020年7月1日 已读
壹心理读书会听书,虽然讲得抽筋扒骨很简洁,但还是能感觉到这是一本会对初学者极为有用的好书。
心理治疗 美国
心理咨询师的14堂必修课 豆瓣
The Making of a Therapist
作者: [美]路易斯·科佐林诺 译者: 黄志强 / 张朝阳 华东师范大学出版社 2012 - 10
众所周知,培养一个优秀的心理咨询师需要付出艰辛的努力,花费巨大的成本。培训过程中,咨询师本人的成长更具有挑战性;忽略这一方面,仅仅提供一些课程,则容易得多。其实,心理治疗要想取得成功,咨询师必须具备敏锐的洞察、成熟的情感和坚定的信心——这些素质都是至关重要的;然而,对知识的死记硬背和对技术的生搬硬套却被大多数培训项目当作重点。结果,咨询师自身的成长被轻视甚至忽略了。《心理咨询师的14堂必修课》一书正是为了扭转这一趋势,向研究生或者初级咨询师奉献一本旅行手册,帮助我们踏上重要的内心旅程。
作者在反思自己从业早期的经历时,为我们提供了一种独特的视角来观察这位资深咨询师的思考和情感。不仅如此,《心理咨询师的14堂必修课》一书还包含了实用的建议、日常工作中的智慧以及坦率的自我剖析,心理卫生从业人员发现这些内容对他们的进一步学习非常有帮助。
2019年12月27日 已读
好书,沒使用任何难解的术语但讲明白了新手咨询师所应了解的很多事情。作者所提的“心灵穿梭”概念有趣且有用。贯穿全书的隐在关注点都是咨询师本身的反移情以及对反移情的阻抗,这的确是工作中的难点,亦可见本书作者功力之深厚。
心理治疗 美国