心理
被困住的聪慧 豆瓣 Goodreads
smart but stuck 所属 作品: 被困住的聪慧
8.5 (15 个评分) 作者: [美] 托马斯. E. 布朗 译者: 刘璐 北京大学医学出版社 2020 - 10
Explains how and why many with ADHD get stuck in their schooling, employment and relationships due to emotional problems they did not know they have. It describes how emotions –positive and negative, often unconsciously–play a critical role in prioritizing tasks, sustaining or shifting interest and effort, holding thoughts in working memory, and choosing to engage in or avoid tasks and situations. True stories of teens and adults illustrate how those with ADHD can get “unstuck” from emotional problems that are holding them back (Jossey-Bass/Wiley, 2014)
妄想代理人 (2004) Bangumi Eggplant.place 豆瓣 TMDB
妄想代理人 Season 1 所属 电视剧集: 妄想代理人
9.0 (641 个评分) 导演: 今敏 / 滨崎博嗣 演员: 能登麻美子 / 桃井晴子
喧嚣嘈杂的东京,都市人为了生计奔波劳碌,承受着巨大的压力,当一切逼近极限时,悲剧不可避免地上演。
美丽安静的鹭月子凭借小狗娃娃麻露美成为炙手可热的设计师,与此同时她也遭遇来自同行的妒嫉以及下一次创作的瓶颈。在一次夜归途中,月子受伤住院,她声称遭到一名手持弯曲金属球棍、脚蹬黄金滑轮的少年的袭击。在此之后,“球棍少年”的袭击案件不断发生,警官猪狩和马庭介入调查,发现受害者在遇袭前大都承受着巨大的压力。不久,“球棍少年”落网,看似一切终于要告一段落,然而整个事态却朝着更加糟糕的方向发展。社会上遇袭事件越来越多,“球棍少年”也成为令人费解的谜团……
浪潮 (2008) IMDb 维基数据 豆瓣 Min reol TMDB Eggplant.place
Die Welle
8.6 (1217 个评分) 导演: 丹尼斯·甘塞尔 演员: 于尔根·福格尔 / 弗雷德里克·劳
其它标题: Die Welle / 恶魔教室(台)
赖纳•文格尔(Jürgen Vogel 饰)是德国某所高中的老师,该学校正在进行“国家体制”的主题活动周。由于他最喜欢的“无政府主义”课被另一位老师捷足先登,因此他只能主讲“独裁统治”课程。
对于自由散漫的学生们来说,任何课程都只是为了学分而上。他们在课上大声聊天,无心听讲。文格尔别出心裁提出假想“独裁”的实验。在为期一周的实验中,文格尔被置于至高无上的地位,学生们对他要绝对服从。从最初的玩乐心态,这些青年男女渐渐沉湎这个名为“浪潮”的组织中,他们体会到集体和纪律的重要性,却在不知不觉中滑向了“独裁”与“纳粹”的深渊……
本片根据真实事件改编,并荣获2008年德国电影杰出剧情片和最佳男配角奖(Frederick Lau)。
2020年6月24日 看过
第一次看是在高二——那时的困惑就保存到现在。直到现在看到民粹主义抬头,再次想起这部片子。
人性 德国 心理
The State of Affairs 豆瓣
所属 作品: 危险关系
作者: Esther Perel Harper 2017 - 10
Iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a provocative look at relationships through the lens of infidelity.
Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about the human heart—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations.
An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so too the prohibition against it—in fact, it has a tenacity that marriage can only envy. So what are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book.
For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart.
Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”