情绪
Switched On 谷歌图书
作者: John Elder Robison Random House Publishing Group 2017 - 02
An extraordinary memoir about the cutting-edge brain therapy that dramatically changed the life and mind of John Elder Robison, the New York Times bestselling author of Look Me in the Eye

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY THE WASHINGTON POST

Imagine spending the first forty years of your life in darkness, blind to the emotions and social signals of other people. Then imagine that someone suddenly switches the lights on.

It has long been assumed that people living with autism are born with the diminished ability to read the emotions of others, even as they feel emotion deeply. But what if we’ve been wrong all this time? What if that “missing” emotional insight was there all along, locked away and inaccessible in the mind?

In 2007 John Elder Robison wrote the international bestseller Look Me in the Eye, a memoir about growing up with Asperger’s syndrome. Amid the blaze of publicity that followed, he received a unique invitation: Would John like to take part in a study led by one of the world’s foremost neuroscientists, who would use an experimental new brain therapy known as TMS, or transcranial magnetic stimulation, in an effort to understand and then address the issues at the heart of autism? Switched On is the extraordinary story of what happened next.

Having spent forty years as a social outcast, misreading others’ emotions or missing them completely, John is suddenly able to sense a powerful range of feelings in other people. However, this newfound insight brings unforeseen problems and serious questions. As the emotional ground shifts beneath his feet, John struggles with the very real possibility that choosing to diminish his disability might also mean sacrificing his unique gifts and even some of his closest relationships. Switched On is a real-life Flowers for Algernon, a fascinating and intimate window into what it means to be neurologically different, and what happens when the world as you know it is upended overnight.

Praise for Switched On

“An eye-opening book with a radical message . . . The transformations [Robison] undergoes throughout the book are astonishing—as foreign and overwhelming as if he woke up one morning with the visual range of a bee or the auditory prowess of a bat.”—The New York Times

“Astonishing, brave . . . reads like a medical thriller and keeps you wondering what will happen next . . . [Robison] takes readers for a ride through the thorny thickets of neuroscience and leaves us wanting more.”—The Washington Post

“Fascinating for its insights into Asperger’s and research, this engrossing record will make readers reexamine their preconceptions about this syndrome and the future of brain manipulation.”—Booklist

“Like books by Andrew Solomon and Oliver Sacks, Switched On offers an opportunity to consider mental processes through a combination of powerful narrative and informative medical context.”—BookPage

“A mind-blowing book that will force you to ask deep questions about what is important in life. Would normalizing the brains of those who think differently reduce their motivation for great achievement?”—Temple Grandin, author of The Autistic Brain

“At the heart of Switched On are fundamental questions of who we are, of where our identity resides, of difference and disability and free will, which are brought into sharp focus by Robison’s lived experience.”—Graeme Simsion, author of The Rosie Effect
2023年6月22日 已读
作为一名自闭症患者和为自闭症群体代言的积极分子,作者参加了一次用穿颅磁刺激(TMS)实验,意图激活自闭症缺失的情绪识别和处理功能。

一般情况下,TMS的效果并不持久。但,实验在他的身上出现了超出预期的效果:在TMS刺激之后,他出现了超验体验:他的感官变得极其敏锐鲜活;对过去的记忆纷纷苏醒,且犹如身临其境般;对他人的情绪,他忽然能本能的识别并应对得当。
面对TMS,他的生活发生了一系列积极和消极的变化。一方面,他对TMS的热情和深入研究,甚至让他成为NIH自闭症相关委员会的成员,参与科研基金的审议。另一方面,对他人情绪的认知和共情造成了他无法和深度抑郁的妻子一起生活,因而离婚。

TMS给他带来的改变,非常长久。

然而,我个人认为,而作者所经历的长期变化,并不是TMS带来的,而是灵性觉醒带来的。TMS充其量是他觉醒的契机。

作者的自传式的写作方式很对我的胃口。
心理学 情绪 脑科学 自传 自闭症
培养高情商男孩 Goodreads 豆瓣
作者: (美)丹·金德伦 / (美)迈克尔·汤普森 译者: 高晓静 / 李岩 中信出版集团 2019 - 9
每一个有麻烦的男孩背后都有不同的故事,但每个故事背后却有一个共同主题——男孩的情感压抑、忽视和疏离,情绪表达能力不足。 如何看出男孩身上的警告信号? 男孩们要为情感教育的缺失付出怎样的代价? 男孩需要如何教育才能成为心智与情感完整的人? 两位作者通过大量动人心弦的案例和深刻的心理分析,期盼能协助父母、老师以及其他所有关心男孩的人,穿透男孩行为表面,给予男孩更多的情感关怀和鼓励,帮助男孩有机会发展出热情、敏感和温暖等特质,成长为可以控制自我情绪、理解他人并能与他人和谐相处的高情商男孩。
2023年5月24日 已读
意识到美国的社会文化其实对亚裔男孩非常不友好。读这本书,是想武装自己的思想,让自己在养育儿子的过程中,少走弯路。本书是男孩养育类图书的经典,成书于1999年,对男孩成长过程中面对的挑战,用案例的形式展示,并且试图给出一些答案。

书中强调,要对男孩进行情感教育,帮他们识别和认清自己和他人的情绪,教会他们安全的释放过剩的精力。家长要学会与孩子保持沟通,给予他们足够的爱,让他们感到自己受珍视,尊重,信任。给他们打下自己是被爱的,有价值的,有能力的底层信念。成为他们的顾问和帮手。示范给他们什么事真正的勇气,如何应对恐惧,如何与他人发展亲密关系。

作为父亲,我要多与儿子共度亲子时光,多给予关注,理解,承认,帮助与赞扬。让孩子知道我珍视他的存在价值,爱他,相信他,助他觉醒,成为一个有能力的男人。
家庭教育 心理学 情绪 教育 男孩