情绪
Unwind Your Mind 谷歌图书
作者: Emma WhispersRed HarperCollins 2019 - 11
Ease Anxiety, Improve Sleep, and Find Calm Through ASMR Join the millions experiencing the soothing power of ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response), a radical new wellness trend for relaxation and stress-relief with proven benefits similar to meditation. In Unwind Your Mind, beloved ASMRtist Emma WhispersRed explores how this powerful practice can help us find calm and be present anytime and anywhere.Unwind Your Mind blends exercises to help you experience calm through ASMR every day. In her trademark therapeutic, soothing style, Emma WhispersRed helps us incorporate ASMR into our daily lives, revolutionizing our approach to self-care, mindfulness, and healing. Complete with a foreword from the psychologist who led one of the largest studies on ASMR, this essential guide to ASMR offers both the latest research on this growing phenomenon and the practical tools for fighting anxiety and finding calm in our lives.Unwind Your Mind is supplemented by three companion audio originals—the first of their kind widely available—ASMR for Your Commute, ASMR for Your Lunch Break, and ASMR for Bedtime.
The Whole-Brain Child 豆瓣
作者: Daniel J. Siegel / Tina Payne Bryson Delacorte Press 2011 - 10
Your toddler throws a tantrum in the middle of a store. Your preschooler refuses to get dressed. Your fifth-grader sulks on the bench instead of playing on the field. Do children conspire to make their parents’ lives endlessly challenging? No—it’s just their developing brain calling the shots!
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight , and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson demystify the meltdowns and aggravation, explaining the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures. The “upstairs brain,” which makes decisions and balances emotions, is under construction until the mid-twenties. And especially in young children, the right brain and its emotions tend to rule over the logic of the left brain. No wonder kids can seem—and feel—so out of control. By applying these discoveries to everyday parenting, you can turn any outburst, argument, or fear into a chance to integrate your child’s brain and foster vital growth. Raise calmer, happier children using twelve key strategies, including
• Name It to Tame It: Corral raging right-brain behavior through left-brain storytelling, appealing to the left brain’s affinity for words and reasoning to calm emotional storms and bodily tension.
• Engage, Don’t Enrage: Keep your child thinking and listening, instead of purely reacting.
• Move It or Lose It: Use physical activities to shift your child’s emotional state.
• Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By: Guide your children when they are stuck on a negative emotion, and help them understand that feelings come and go.
• SIFT: Help children pay attention to the Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts within them so that they can make better decisions and be more flexible.
• Connect Through Conflict: Use discord to encourage empathy and greater social success.
Complete with clear explanations, age-appropriate strategies for dealing with day-to-day struggles, and illustrations that will help you explain these concepts to your child, The Whole-Brain Child shows you how to cultivate healthy emotional and intellectual development so that your children can lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives.
2022年3月30日 已读 “左右脑分工”“上区下区”这种极有可能是错误的、极有可能被误解的观点竟仍被作为主要理论介绍,委实让人惊讶。建构论、简并理论真的要加强传播。但非常吊诡的是,虽然借用的理论落空,但本书所提供的实践方法却极有可能是有效的。毕竟这类延伸的方法论与最基础的脑神经科学发现依然是吻合的。其中最受益的是“可控的回忆倒带法”。无论是儿童还是成人,把不明就里的情绪源头的细节拼凑完整,我们才能知道自己从哪里来,以后往何处去。
原文 发展心理学 心理学 情绪 教育
How Emotions Are Made 豆瓣 Goodreads
作者: Lisa Feldman Barrett Houghton Mifflin Harcourt 2017 - 3
2021年10月7日 已读
You‘re your experience,you’re your emotions. 这是一份情绪建构论颠覆传统情绪观的代表综述,先是通过实验例证表明传统情绪观主张的内在于大脑的情绪本质并不存在,批驳“刺激-反应”理解pattern,再基于大脑神经的多样组合运作事实,引入内感系统,预测与检验、建构意义等猜想概念,尝试将大脑实际运作产生情绪实例的过程还原出来。建构论强调不存在某种情绪下统一的身体感受反应,人类借助过往的记忆、经历、社会环境中的概念、文化对一种经验进行判断预测,从而满足一些具体情境中的目标需要,形成意义,产生了一个具体的情绪实例。因此不同文化社群地域的人会产生不同的情绪感知、价值,不存在世界大同的情绪。人类可以练习使用多种多样的词汇来描述情绪,提升情绪粒度。睡好吃好运动是前提
原文 建构论 心理学 心理建构论 情绪
情绪 豆瓣
How Emotions Are Made
7.7 (7 个评分) 作者: 【美】莉莎·费德曼·巴瑞特 译者: 周芳芳 / 黄扬名 中信出版集团 2019 - 2
每一天,我们都会带着情绪醒来,也会带着情绪入睡。我们会受到情绪波动的影响,甚至被情绪牢牢控制,做出积极的或是消极的,甚至是不可思议的行为。
那么,情绪是如何产生的?我们能够管理自己的情绪吗?
传统情绪观认为,情绪是人类进化的产物,外界活动激发了我们内在的情绪反应。如果我们无法用理性思维控制情绪,我们就会做出傻事,甚至产生暴力行为。
但是,大量科学研究证明,这种传统情绪观有可能是错误的。
知名心理学家、神经科学家莉莎·费德曼·巴瑞特博士基于多年的深入研究,提出了全新的情绪构建理论,这个理论将彻底改变我们对人类大脑的认知。作者认为,情绪并非与生俱来,它也不具有普遍性。情绪不是被激发的,而是由个体创造出来的。情绪的出现是各种因素(包括你的各种生理特征、灵活的大脑以及文化背景和成长环境)协调作用的结果。因此,我们能够通过具体可行的方法,管理情绪、控制情绪、提高情商,学会接纳自己,体谅他人,从而打造融洽的人际关系,拥有和谐幸福的生活。
2021年10月7日 已读 书是极好,但译文有明显的错误,一些地方甚至将原文的含义颠倒了:作者表示基因不必然使人经历某种情绪,译者译成了“是不可避免的”,认真的读者会在上下文处感受到不协调感;有一些细处为了呈现成文精炼略去了一些定语前提,却导致句子的表述范围扩大,既未承接好上下文又曲解了作者的原意;另有一些词语的译法非常值得商榷:variation,本意是多样性、多元状态,作者也一直强调不存在任何一种不变的、可检测的情绪本质,情绪实例呈现出多元多样才是常态。译者却把它对应为“变异”,这种不精确的用词又暗含了一种“正常”,违背了作者的学术主张。
心理学 情绪 成长 育儿