非虚构
Break the Cycle 谷歌图书
作者: Dr. Mariel Buqué Penguin 2024 - 01
***The Instant National Bestseller***

A Next Big Idea Club must-read title for January 2024

The definitive, paradigm-shifting guide to healing intergenerational trauma—weaving together scientific research with practical exercises and stories from the therapy room—from Dr. Mariel Buqué, PhD, a Columbia University–trained trauma-informed psychologist and practitioner of holistic healing

From Dr. Mariel Buqué, a leading trauma psychologist, comes this groundbreaking guide to transforming intergenerational pain into intergenerational abundance. With Break the Cycle, she delivers the definitive guide to healing inherited trauma. Weaving together scientific research with practical exercises and stories from the therapy room, Dr. Buqué teaches readers how trauma is transmitted from one generation to the next and how they can break the cycle through tangible therapeutic practices, learning to pass down strength instead of pain to future generations.

When a physical wound is left unhealed, it continues to cause pain and can infect the whole body. When emotions are left unhealed, they similarly cause harm that spreads to other parts of our lives, hurting our family, friends, community members, and others. Eventually, this hurt can injure an entire lineage, metastasizing across years and generations. This is intergenerational trauma.

This trauma is why some of us become estranged from our families, why some of us are people pleasers, why some of us find ourselves in codependent relationships. This trauma can be rooted in the experiences of ancestors, who may have suffered due to unhealthy family dynamics, and it can be collective, the result of a shared experience like systemic oppression, or harmful ingrained behaviors in a culture like the acceptance of physical discipline of children, or even a natural disaster like a pandemic. These wounds are complex, impacting our minds, bodies, and spirits. Healing requires a holistic approach that has so far been absent from the field of psychology. Until now.
2024年8月6日 已读
非常实用主义的self-help book,不仅正文当中有很多配合文章内容的自我治愈exercise,最后甚至还在附录里塞了气味疗法的recipe和声音疗法的音乐,不过理论的内容并不深,差不多是把日常思考体系化的程度,最重要的点可能是提出了“代际创伤”的概念,给了很多“原生家庭”造成的心理问题一个比较系统性的答案和相对比较普适的解决方案,问题是我国这种“代际创伤”差不多是社会范式了,再怎么寻摸解决方案基本也就只能停留在“讨论”的层面……
心理学 社会学 非虚构
Laughter in Ancient Rome 豆瓣
作者: Mary Beard University of California Press 2014 - 6
What made the Romans laugh? Was ancient Rome a carnival, filled with practical jokes and hearty chuckles? Or was it a carefully regulated culture in which the uncontrollable excess of laughter was a force to fear—a world of wit, irony, and knowing smiles? How did Romans make sense of laughter? What role did it play in the world of the law courts, the imperial palace, or the spectacles of the arena?
Laughter in Ancient Rome explores one of the most intriguing, but also trickiest, of historical subjects. Drawing on a wide range of Roman writing—from essays on rhetoric to a surviving Roman joke book—Mary Beard tracks down the giggles, smirks, and guffaws of the ancient Romans themselves. From ancient “monkey business” to the role of a chuckle in a culture of tyranny, she explores Roman humor from the hilarious, to the momentous, to the surprising. But she also reflects on even bigger historical questions. What kind of history of laughter can we possibly tell? Can we ever really “get” the Romans’ jokes?
2024年7月26日 已读
还有点意思,不过虽然前言里说会有点逗乐,其实基本没有,还是非常学术甚至有点学究气的书,可能本来就不是给general public看的,所以很多古典reference甚至语言学上的梗我懂不了觉得有点迷失也是没办法……感觉花了太长时间去铺垫和讲解“判断标准”,实际的案例和分析占的比例太低了……其实想要看看古罗马人的笑点在哪里,后半本就够了,有几个还真挺好笑的比如“你妈去过罗马吗?”“没有但是我爸去过好几次”
古罗马 社会学 非虚构
沉思录 豆瓣
Τὰ εἰς ἑαυτόν
7.8 (13 个评分) 作者: 玛克斯·奥勒留 译者: 梁实秋 译林出版社 2009 - 4
《沉思录》是古罗马帝国皇帝玛克斯·奥勒留在鞍马劳顿中所记录的与自己心灵的对话。这位一千八百年前的旷代奇人在书中阐述了灵魂与死亡的关系,解析了个人的德行、个人对社会的责任以及对为人处世律己待人之道等诸多人生哲理的领悟。该书不仅是古罗马斯多亚派哲学的里程碑,而且对今人的思想及生活仍有着重要的指导意义,可以说是人间至宝。一代文学大师、翻译巨匠梁实秋的译文优美流畅、纯正优雅,是英语学习者和爱好者提高英语水平的最佳读物。
A Last Supper of Queer Apostles 谷歌图书
作者: Pedro Lemebel Penguin 2024 - 05
“Intoxicating . . . Sexy, political and deeply humane . . . We all owe Penguin Classics a round of shots for A Last Supper of Queer Apostles.” —The Washington Post

A galvanizing look at life on the margins of society by a crowning figure of Latin America's queer counterculture who celebrated “melodrama, kitsch, extravagance, and vulgarity of all kinds” (Garth Greenwell) in playful, performative, linguistically inventive essays, now available in English for the first time

A Penguin Classic

“I speak from my difference,” wrote Pedro Lemebel, an openly queer writer and artist living through Chile’s AIDS epidemic and the collapse of the Pinochet dictatorship. In brilliantly innovative essays—known as crónicas—that combine memoir, reportage, fiction, history, and poetry, he brought visibility and dignity to sexual minorities, the poor, and the powerless. Touching on everything from Che Guevara to Elizabeth Taylor, from the aftermath of authoritarian rule to the daily lives of Chile’s locas—a slur for trans women and effeminate gay men that he boldly reclaims—his writing infuses political urgency with playfulness, realism with absurdism, and resistance with camp, and his AIDS crónicas immortalize a generation of Chileans doubly “disappeared” by casting each loca, as she falls sick, in the starring role of her own private tragedy. This volume brings together the best of his work, introducing readers of English to the subversive genius of a literary activist and queer icon whose acrobatic explorations of the Santiago demimonde reverberate around the world.

For more than seventy-five years, Penguin has been the leading publisher of classic literature in the English-speaking world. With more than 2,000 titles, Penguin Classics represents a global bookshelf of the best works throughout history and across genres and disciplines. Readers trust the series to provide authoritative texts enhanced by introductions and notes by distinguished scholars and contemporary authors, as well as up-to-date translations by award-winning translators.
2024年7月17日 已读
这本在goodreads上rating也非常少,queer POC外加是非虚构,意料之中的小众,应该属于被埋没的宝石了……虽然是散文,但是作者文笔非常好(如果翻译真实还原原文的话),写出了散文诗的感觉,但内容却很少抒情,更多鲜血淋漓的痛……集子里涉及到革命/叛乱、性和罪化同性恋、艾滋病等等,都是非常真实的切肤之痛……语言非常诗化,但叙述却直白和不加掩饰,这种看似矛盾的组合实则毫无违和感,非常神奇的阅读体验
LGBT 散文集 智利 非虚构
Ace 豆瓣 Goodreads 谷歌图书
9.1 (28 个评分) 作者: Angela Chen Beacon Press 2020 - 9
An engaging exploration of what it means to be asexual in a world that’s obsessed with sexual attraction, and what the ace perspective can teach all of us about desire and identity.
What exactly is sexual attraction and what is it like to go through life not experiencing it? What does asexuality reveal about gender roles, about romance and consent, and the pressures of society? This accessible examination of asexuality shows that the issues that aces face—confusion around sexual activity, the intersection of sexuality and identity, navigating different needs in relationships—are the same conflicts that nearly all of us will experience. Through a blend of reporting, cultural criticism, and memoir, Ace addresses the misconceptions around the “A” of LGBTQIA and invites everyone to rethink pleasure and intimacy.
Journalist Angela Chen creates her path to understanding her own asexuality with the perspectives of a diverse group of asexual people. Vulnerable and honest, these stories include a woman who had blood tests done because she was convinced that “not wanting sex” was a sign of serious illness, and a man who grew up in a religious household and did everything “right,” only to realize after marriage that his experience of sexuality had never been the same as that of others. Disabled aces, aces of color, gender-nonconforming aces, and aces who both do and don’t want romantic relationships all share their experiences navigating a society in which a lack of sexual attraction is considered abnormal. Chen’s careful cultural analysis explores how societal norms limit understanding of sex and relationships and celebrates the breadth of sexuality and queerness.
2024年6月3日 已读
写得非常浅显的科普,主要笔墨集中在分享和分析案例,讨论基本也是从案例衍生出来,但讲得确实很浅,属于是单反对这个问题有过比较系统性的思考,就会觉得她讨论的内容你心里已经有了答案……然而浅并不算是缺点,甚至反而是优点,这本算是比较早讨论asexual和ace community的作品了,对于读者而言,尤其是大多数也许并没接触、思考过asexual这个概念的allo群体而言,由浅入深的“科普”非常必要,浅并不影响其作为无性恋入门读物的价值,比较喜欢的是有关无性恋+残疾/孤独症患者群体的讨论,以及由无性恋的性关系引发到全社会对性同意定义的讨论
LGBT 美国 非虚构
The Grand Alliance 谷歌图书
作者: Winston Churchill Houghton Mifflin Harcourt 1986 - 05
The British, Soviets, and Americans unite in this chapter of the six-volume WWII history by the legendary prime minister and Nobel Prize recipient.

The Grand Alliance describes the end of an extraordinary period in British military history, in which Britain stood alone against Germany. Two crucial events brought an end to Britain's isolation. First was Hitler's decision to attack the Soviet Union, opening up a battle front in the East and forcing Stalin to look to the British for support. The second was the bombing of Pearl Harbor. US support had long been crucial to the British war effort, and here, Winston Churchill documents his efforts to draw the Americans to aid, including correspondence with President Roosevelt.

This book is part of the six-volume account of World War II told from the unique viewpoint of a British prime minister who led his nation in the fight against tyranny. In addition to the correspondence with FDR, the series is enriched with extensive primary sources. We are presented with not only Churchill's retrospective analysis of the war, but also memos, letters, orders, speeches, and telegrams, day-by-day accounts of reactions as the drama intensifies. Throughout these volumes, we listen as strategies and counterstrategies unfold in response to Hitler's conquest of Europe, planned invasion of England, and assault on Russia, in a mesmerizing account of the crucial decisions made as the fate of the world hangs in the balance.
2024年5月25日 已读
这本涉及到的内容基本是英、美、苏逐渐达成同盟的部分,不过能说“逐渐”的大概主要是前苏联,丘吉尔笔下的斯大林军事头脑非常老辣、情绪却像小孩一样非常外化藏不住事儿……说是Grand Alliance,说是“胜利已经有了保障”,实际上却是英国在各个战场上一直在输、登陆时间一直被迫延后,甚至丘吉尔本人的领袖地位也岌岌可危,读起来都替他提心吊胆的
历史 英国 非虚构
x+y 豆瓣
作者: Eugenia Cheng Basic Books
Why are men in charge? After years in the male-dominated field of mathematics and in the female-dominated field of art, Eugenia Cheng has heard the question many times. In x + y, Cheng argues that her mathematical specialty -- category theory -- reveals why. Category theory deals more with context, relationships, and nuanced versions of equality than with intrinsic characteristics. Category theory also emphasizes dimensionality: much as a cube can cast a square or diamond shadow, depending on your perspective, so too do gender politics appear to change with how we examine them. Because society often rewards traits that it associates with males, such as competitiveness, we treat the problems those traits can create as male. But putting competitive women in charge will leave many unjust relationships in place. If we want real change, we need to transform the contexts in which we all exist, and not simply who we think we are.
2024年4月8日 已读
这本说实话挺失望的,不仅性别问题说得很暧昧,就连所谓的数学思维都只能算是噱头而已……可以感受到这个作者本身很纠结很别扭,一边说不希望囿于性别思维的窠臼,一边张嘴就是男的倾向于而女的倾向于,然后马上又给自己贴补丁说“只是个人经历”或者not all men and not all women……虽然全书也不乏数据的引用,但是类似于这样“身边即世界”的推论太多让人难以信服……作者花了半本书澄清数学不仅是数字和方程,然后说“用数学思维”引入了一个新的维度,congressive和ingressive(基本可以对应cooperative和competitive),然后就把“数学”抛之脑后,开始了原地转圈一样的论述,用到的最大的assumption就是congressive good, ingressive bad,但是始终没有给予除了循环论证和主观感受之外的论证……我是始终觉得竞争行为不好的人,但我也觉得它是不可避免的,毕竟资源是有限的,就算合作也要考虑资源分配方式的问题,而我们完全没到可以平均分配的共产主义乌托邦,甚至放弃竞争的话都无法像现在这样跳出食物链的限制成为地球霸主(非褒义)……然而这个作者,一到涉及到需要深入剖析和解决根源问题的时候,就轻描淡写地滑了过去,单方面强调什么都不是零和游戏、合作总能让资源变得更多真是充满了中产阶级的优越感,到最后甚至说人类靠congressivity达到了其他动物都达不到的高度,但是不好的点是ingressivity让人类奴役和欺压其他人和动物,难不成侵占动物生存空间不是人类文明发展的重要组成部分?有没有可能一个行为本身也是有ingressive的部分和congressive的部分而不能单纯这么二分法地讨论……更不要说我全程没看出来她用的方法和数学思维有啥关系,非常站不住脚的一本书
性别 美国 非虚构
狐狸 豆瓣 Goodreads
Fox
8.3 (39 个评分) 作者: [荷]杜布拉夫卡·乌格雷西奇 译者: 刘伟 北京日报出版社 2023 - 5
狐狸不属于野兽,不属于我们人类,也不属于神灵。

她是一个永恒的偷渡者,一个在世界之间穿梭自如的移民,被抓到逃票时,就会用尾巴玩球,表演她廉价的小把戏,目光极为短浅地将观众转瞬即逝的赞叹当成了爱。那是她的荣耀时刻。

其他的一切都是恐惧的历史:逃避猎人的子弹、不停狂吠的猎犬 、迫害、殴 打、舔舐伤口、羞辱、孤独和廉价的安慰——一串鸡骨头做的手摇铃。

狐狸是作家的图腾。
2024年3月30日 已读
很难定义的一本书,一开始读感慨于自己文学常识的稀薄,作者引用到的许多文学知识让我一脸茫然,作者的思维又比较跳跃,在时间和空间之中自如穿梭,让努力跟随的我感觉有点吃力,但读到后面又觉得很丝滑,作者以狐狸的狡黠和背叛为线索,引出了一些文学世界的“脚注”,涉及到的话题包括旅行、孩子、写作的动机和意义、女性与写作、移民及他们面临的困境等等,作为克语作家,她对克罗地亚独立战争及其后果的一手体验尤其难能可贵。印象特别深刻的两个部分是排雷军人和经济舱作家,前者是从常人的眼光看不寻常的世界,后者是从不寻常的视角看平凡的日常,虽然看似毫无关联但形成了一种遥遥相望的互文,非常有意思。
克罗地亚 女性 文学 非虚构
Killers of the Flower Moon 豆瓣 Eggplant.place
8.9 (9 个评分) 作者: David Grann Doubleday 2017 - 4
From New Yorker staff writer David Grann, #1 New York Times best-selling author of The Lost City of Z, a twisting, haunting true-life murder mystery about one of the most monstrous crimes in American history
In the 1920s, the richest people per capita in the world were members of the Osage Indian nation in Oklahoma. After oil was discovered beneath their land, they rode in chauffeured automobiles, built mansions, and sent their children to study in Europe.
Then, one by one, the Osage began to be killed off. The family of an Osage woman, Mollie Burkhart, became a prime target. Her relatives were shot and poisoned. And it was just the beginning, as more and more members of the tribe began to die under mysterious circumstances.
In this last remnant of the Wild West—where oilmen like J. P. Getty made their fortunes and where desperadoes like Al Spencer, the “Phantom Terror,” roamed—many of those who dared to investigate the killings were themselves murdered. As the death toll climbed to more than twenty-four, the FBI took up the case. It was one of the organization’s first major homicide investigations and the bureau badly bungled the case. In desperation, the young director, J. Edgar Hoover, turned to a former Texas Ranger named Tom White to unravel the mystery. White put together an undercover team, including one of the only American Indian agents in the bureau. The agents infiltrated the region, struggling to adopt the latest techniques of detection. Together with the Osage they began to expose one of the most chilling conspiracies in American history.
In Killers of the Flower Moon, David Grann revisits a shocking series of crimes in which dozens of people were murdered in cold blood. Based on years of research and startling new evidence, the book is a masterpiece of narrative nonfiction, as each step in the investigation reveals a series of sinister secrets and reversals. But more than that, it is a searing indictment of the callousness and prejudice toward American Indians that allowed the murderers to operate with impunity for so long. Killers of the Flower Moon is utterly compelling, but also emotionally devastating.
2024年3月5日 已读
为了最后一章加半颗星,David Grann很擅长写history/true crime这类非虚构,从The Wager的调调就能看出来了,一百年前发生的案子,从案件本身到调查过程都写出了thriller/mystery的感觉,但在了解案子本身的基础上,了解其后更深层次的、结构性的源头才是这本书的核心,值得书写的除了骇人听闻的连环凶杀案以及让案件迟迟得不到进展的系统,以及支撑着这个系统的内里逻辑。给Osage带来了杀身之祸的与其说是油田和随之而来的财富,不如说是把原住民当做低等动物的殖民主义强盗逻辑,既得利益者利用看似冠冕堂皇的理由,“帮助”原住民管理他们的财产,再把他们逐一铲除最终获得这些财产,直到他们和油田一样被榨干,繁荣和富庶都被消耗殆尽,只剩下这片浸透了他们鲜血的土地……所以斯科塞斯是怎么把这么值得深挖的案子拍成一个拖拖拉拉而且白男中心的杀猪盘的it's a real mystery
历史 美国 非虚构
俄国纪行 豆瓣
A Russian Journal
作者: 约翰·斯坦贝克 译者: 杜默 北京大学出版社 2015 - 7
《俄国纪行》是著名作家约翰‧斯坦贝克与战地摄影师罗伯特•卡帕 40天苏联之行(1947年7月至9月)的记录。这是一次巨人之间的伟大合作。斯坦贝克和卡帕的足迹从莫斯科到斯大林格勒,从乌克兰田园到格鲁吉亚海滨。斯坦贝克充满热情、同情而又幽默生动的文字,与卡帕卓越的摄影写实珠联璧合,真实展现了苏联市井小民的日常生活。
2024年2月12日 已读
非常朴素平实的游记,Steinbeck和Capa克服千难万险,探访铁幕背后的苏联(遇到的困难包括但不仅限于一大堆摄影设备以及相关审批,抵达俄国后语言不通以及能否获批离开莫斯科的问题,甚至还有出行前两个月Steinbeck坠楼摔断了一条腿我的天……),难能可贵的是他们此行的目的并非政治性的,相反,他们想做的正是摒弃政治目的和偏见,聚焦俄国普通民众的日常生活,虽然两个人都被重重审批流程搞得焦头烂额不胜其烦焦虑难当,但Steinbeck又不停强调与他们接触的民众有多么热情好客蓬勃向上而且每餐都不顾他们的抱怨把他们投喂到food coma,对旅途的描绘也充满了睿智风趣的幽默感和令人捧腹的笑料,因为突如其来的拍摄而崩溃得七零八落的样板戏、在斯大林格勒疯狂“加班”捣乱的小精灵,还有Steinbeck对Capa起床气和各种怪癖的吐槽以及Capa的反唇相讥,意料之外的light reading,然而是否真的能达到预期的效果、破除propoganda的影响,也无从得知了,毕竟苏联都已经无了……
游记 美国 非虚构
Helen of Troy 豆瓣
作者: Bettany Hughes Knopf 2005 - 10
An illuminating, erudite, lively search for the real Helen of Troy–a chronicle that combines historical inquiry and storytelling élan–from one of Britain’s most widely acclaimed and popular historians.
As soon as men began to write, they made Helen of Troy their subject; for close to three thousand years she has been both the embodiment of absolute female beauty and a reminder of the terrible power that beauty can wield. Because of her double marriage to the Greek king Menelaus and the Trojan prince Paris, Helen was held responsible for an enduring enmity between East and West. For millennia she has been viewed as an exquisite agent of extermination. But who was she?
Helen exists in many guises: a matriarch from the Age of Heroes who ruled over one of the most fertile areas of the Mycenaean world; Helen of Sparta, the focus of a cult that conflated Helen the heroine with a pre-Greek fertility goddess; the home-wrecker of the Iliad; the bitch-whore of Greek tragedy; the pin-up of Romantic artists.
Focusing on the “real” Helen–a flesh-and-blood aristocrat from the Greek Bronze Age–Bettany Hughes reconstructs the context of life for this pre-historic princess. Through the eyes of a young Mycenaean woman, Hughes examines the physical, historical, and cultural traces that Helen has left on locations in Greece, North Africa, and Asia Minor. Vivid and compelling, this remarkable book brilliantly unpacks the facts and myths surrounding one of the most enigmatic and notorious figures of all time.
2024年2月8日 已读
Informative and interesting,从考古和史料的角度寻找这个也许根本没有存在过的特洛伊的海伦,探寻她所处时代和地域的环境、生活习惯、社会习俗、思维模式,将传说中的海伦还原成一个立体、多面、真实存在的生活在青铜器时期的女性,实际上信息组织稍微有点scattered,资料虽然多且角度全但多少有些碎片式,不过作者笔力相当深厚,重述特洛伊战争的部分写得考究且激动人心,也充满了趣味性,她自己阅读的有声书非常engaging,最喜欢的部分是讨论海伦是和帕里斯私奔还是被掳走的部分,认为“被掳走”是基督教语境下强加的rape fantasy这个推论很有说服力,而Bettany Hughes的研究也为这个可能是历史上被物化、污名化最严重的女性赋予了一些主体性。
神话 英国 非虚构
Crying in H Mart 豆瓣 Goodreads
Crying in H Mart
7.9 (53 个评分) 作者: Michelle Zauner Alfred A. Knopf 2021 - 4
From the indie rockstar of Japanese Breakfast fame, and author of the viral 2018 New Yorker essay that shares the title of this book, an unflinching, powerful memoir about growing up Korean American, losing her mother, and forging her own identity.
In this exquisite story of family, food, grief, and endurance, Michelle Zauner proves herself far more than a dazzling singer, songwriter, and guitarist. With humor and heart, she tells of growing up one of the few Asian American kids at her school in Eugene, Oregon; of struggling with her mother’s particular, high expectations of her; of a painful adolescence; of treasured months spent in her grandmother’s tiny apartment in Seoul, where she and her mother would bond, late at night, over heaping plates of food.
As she grew up, moving to the East Coast for college, finding work in the restaurant industry, and performing gigs with her fledgling band–and meeting the man who would become her husband–her Koreanness began to feel ever more distant, even as she found the life she wanted to live. It was her mother’s diagnosis of terminal cancer, when Michelle was twenty-five, that forced a reckoning with her identity and brought her to reclaim the gifts of taste, language, and history her mother had given her.
Vivacious and plainspoken, lyrical and honest, Zauner’s voice is as radiantly alive on the page as it is onstage. Rich with intimate anecdotes that will resonate widely, and complete with family photos, Crying in H Mart is a book to cherish, share, and reread.
2021年5月23日 已读
这本真的非常值得,母女亲情、亚裔身份认知、对死亡的恐惧和对离别的接受,以及美食在其中的作用,情感很真挚,文笔也真的不错
亚裔 回忆录 美国 非虚构
Bad Feminist 豆瓣 Goodreads
Bad Feminist
7.5 (8 个评分) 作者: Roxane Gay Harper Perennial 2014 - 8
A collection of essays spanning politics, criticism, and feminism from one of the most-watched young cultural observers of her generation, Roxane Gay.
“Pink is my favorite color. I used to say my favorite color was black to be cool, but it is pink—all shades of pink. If I have an accessory, it is probably pink. I read Vogue, and I’m not doing it ironically, though it might seem that way. I once live-tweeted the September issue.”
In these funny and insightful essays, Roxane Gay takes us through the journey of her evolution as a woman (Sweet Valley High) of color (The Help) while also taking readers on a ride through culture of the last few years (Girls, Django in Chains) and commenting on the state of feminism today (abortion, Chris Brown). The portrait that emerges is not only one of an incredibly insightful woman continually growing to understand herself and our society, but also one of our culture.
Bad Feminist is a sharp, funny, and spot-on look at the ways in which the culture we consume becomes who we are, and an inspiring call-to-arms of all the ways we still need to do better, coming from one of our most interesting and important cultural critics.
2021年3月29日 已读
Good opinions, bad writing...文字方面是真的很弱,也没有花心思系统化地组织自己的观点,而是把自己的观点base在评价其他人的作品上,没看过她提到的作品的人就很难完全grasp她想表达的内容
女性主义 美国 非虚构
Man's Search for Meaning 豆瓣 Goodreads Goodreads
Trotzdem ja zum Leben sagen: Ein Psychologe erlebt das Konzentrationslager
8.7 (21 个评分) 作者: Viktor E. Frankl 译者: Isle Lasch Beacon Press 2006 - 6
Book Description
Frankl's timeless memoir and meditation on finding meaning in the midst of suffering With a new Foreword by Harold S. Kushner and a new Biographical Afterword by William J. Winslade Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl's memoir has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. Between 1942 and 1945 Frankl labored in four different camps, including Auschwitz, while his parents, brother, and pregnant wife perished. Based on his own experience and the experiences of others he treated later in his practice, Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. Frankl's theory-known as logotherapy, from the Greek word logos ("meaning")-holds that our primary drive in life is not pleasure, as Freud maintained, but the discovery and pursuit of what we personally find meaningful. At the time of Frankl's death in 1997, Man's Search for Meaning had sold more than 10 million copies in twenty-four languages. A 1991 reader survey for the Library of Congress that asked readers to name a "book that made a difference in your life" found Man's Search for Meaning among the ten most influential books in America. Beacon Press, the original English-language publisher of Man's Search for Meaning, is issuing this new paperback edition with a new Foreword, biographical Afterword, jacket, price, and classroom materials to reach new generations of readers.
Book Dimension
length: (cm)17.6                 width:(cm)10.6
2021年3月9日 已读
这个作者的笔法真是哭死我,能从这么痛苦的经历里抽离出来冷静客观地回看和分析在集中营里以爱维系生命的人、和窗外的树对话的人、梦到 day of liberation的人,文笔越是克制越让我忍不住眼泪决堤,脱胎于此的logotherapy也是非常厉害,那现在当作过去、把选择当作弥补过去的理论很有意思值得听
非虚构
When Women Ruled the World 豆瓣 Goodreads
National Geographic 2018 - 10
This riveting narrative explores the lives of six remarkable female pharaohs, from Hatshepsut to Cleopatra--women who ruled with real power--and shines a piercing light on our own perceptions of women in power today.<br /><br />Female rulers are a rare phenomenon--but thousands of years ago in ancient Egypt, women reigned supreme. Regularly, repeatedly, and with impunity, queens like Hatshepsut, Nefertiti, and Cleopatra controlled the totalitarian state as power-brokers and rulers. But throughout human history, women in positions of power were more often used as political pawns in a male-dominated society. What was so special about ancient Egypt that provided women this kind of access to the highest political office? What was it about these women that allowed them to transcend patriarchal obstacles? What did Egypt gain from its liberal reliance on female leadership, and could today's world learn from its example?<br /><br />Celebrated Egyptologist Kara Cooney delivers a fascinating tale of female power, exploring the reasons why it has seldom been allowed through the ages, and why we should care.
2021年1月6日 已读
Why are human societies so happy to bequickly rid of female rule?这本的epilogue值得全篇背诵。女领导者为什么总是失败?一是 glass cliff,不到政权或者团体遇到重大困难甚至即将倾覆的时候,女性根本不会得到机会去领导;二是人们书写历史的方式,对于男性领导者的缺点民众选择宽容甚至忽视,而对于女性领导者民众则是拿着显微镜对着她们的缺点看,甚至在男性领导者即将失败的时候人们也往往从他周围的女性身上找问题,women are ironically strong in termsof bad influence, eh?
历史 女性 非虚构
How To Be a Woman 豆瓣 Goodreads
作者: Caitlin Moran Ebury Press 2011 - 6
1913 - Suffragette throws herself under the King's horse. 1969 - Feminists storm Miss World. Now - Caitlin Moran rewrites "The Female Eunuch" from a bar stool and demands to know why pants are getting smaller. There's never been a better time to be a woman: we have the vote and the Pill, and we haven't been burnt as witches since 1727. However, a few nagging questions do remain...Why are we supposed to get Brazilians? Should you get Botox? Do men secretly hate us? What should you call your vagina? Why does your bra hurt? And why does everyone ask you when you're going to have a baby? Part memoir, part rant, Caitlin Moran answers these questions and more in "How To Be A Woman" - following her from her terrible 13th birthday ('I am 13 stone, have no friends, and boys throw gravel at me when they see me') through adolescence, the workplace, strip-clubs, love, fat, abortion, TopShop, motherhood and beyond.
2020年8月19日 已读
Audible听的,作者本人读起来真的是非常暴躁的女拳本拳了,语言很好笑,而且谈问题非常直接,但也正因为如此,有些想法暴露了很多思维上的问题,真的说sexism那一章实在没法认同,还有好多其实很复杂但是给到的讨论过有点片面
女性主义 非虚构
The Secret Lives of Color Goodreads Homelab Reviews 豆瓣
The Secret Lives of Colour
作者: Kassia St Clair Penguin Books 2017 - 10
The Secret Lives of Colour tells the unusual stories of the 75 most fascinating shades, dyes and hues. From blonde to ginger , the brown that changed the way battles were fought to the white that protected against the plague, Picasso's blue period to the charcoal on the cave walls at Lascaux, acid yellow to kelly green , and from scarlet women to imperial purple , these surprising stories run like a bright thread throughout history. In this book Kassia St Clair has turned her lifelong obsession with colours and where they come from (whether Van Gogh's chrome yellow sunflowers or punk's fluorescent pink ) into a unique study of human civilisation. Across fashion and politics, art and war, The Secret Lives of Colour tell the vivid story of our culture.
2020年8月10日 已读
还挺有趣的!通篇都是小故事,有几个真的很长知识~不过有几个不那么有代表性的就有点套路,来凑数的感觉……三星半,看电子书我觉得亏了
设计 非虚构
Steve Jobs 豆瓣 Goodreads Goodreads
Steve Jobs
8.5 (36 个评分) 作者: [美国] 沃尔特·艾萨克森 Simon & Schuster 2011 - 10
Based on more than forty interviews with Jobs conducted over two years—as well as interviews with more than a hundred family members, friends, adversaries, competitors, and colleagues—Walter Isaacson has written a riveting story of the roller-coaster life and searingly intense personality of a creative entrepreneur whose passion for perfection and ferocious drive revolutionized six industries: personal computers, animated movies, music, phones, tablet computing, and digital publishing.
At a time when America is seeking ways to sustain its innovative edge, and when societies around the world are trying to build digital-age economies, Jobs stands as the ultimate icon of inventiveness and applied imagination. He knew that the best way to create value in the twenty-first century was to connect creativity with technology. He built a company where leaps of the imagination were combined with remarkable feats of engineering.
Although Jobs cooperated with this book, he asked for no control over what was written nor even the right to read it before it was published. He put nothing off-limits. He encouraged the people he knew to speak honestly. And Jobs speaks candidly, sometimes brutally so, about the people he worked with and competed against. His friends, foes, and colleagues provide an unvarnished view of the passions, perfectionism, obsessions, artistry, devilry, and compulsion for control that shaped his approach to business and the innovative products that resulted.
Driven by demons, Jobs could drive those around him to fury and despair. But his personality and products were interrelated, just as Apple’s hardware and software tended to be, as if part of an integrated system. His tale is instructive and cautionary, filled with lessons about innovation, character, leadership, and values.
2022年3月27日 已读
lsaacson是真的很会讲故事,把乔布斯的生平写得条理清晰、脉络明确。他笔下的乔布斯很鲜活,被遗弃的孤儿和天选之子,叛逆的少年和特立独行的天才,暴躁的老板和完美主义的艺术家,激进的创造者和傲慢的老大哥,不同时间点的性格特征一脉相承,却也可以感觉到微妙的变化….读完之后印象最深刻的就是乔布斯时代产品的工匠精神,他非常知道自己要什么,并且是个绝对固执的控制狂,对任何人事物的评价就是简单粗暴的二分法,不是 brilliant就是shit;他不仅控制员工,还控制客户,开发出他认为客户将来会有的需求,且始终坚持软件硬件一体的封闭系统,并不给客户什么选择的机会。可以说正是这种执拗的二分法成就了他和Apple,但又忍不住想,如果乔帮主是个女老板,带着这样的性格,是否能拥有同样的成就…
传记 美国 非虚构
The Selfish Gene 豆瓣 Goodreads Goodreads
The Selfish Gene
9.0 (16 个评分) 作者: Richard Dawkins OUP Oxford 2006 - 5
Richard Dawkins' brilliant reformulation of the theory of natural selection has the rare distinction of having provoked as much excitement and interest outside the scientific community as within it. His theories have helped change the whole nature of the study of social biology, and have forced thousands of readers to rethink their beliefs about life.
In his internationally bestselling, now classic volume, The Selfish Gene , Dawkins explains how the selfish gene can also be a subtle gene. The world of the selfish gene revolves around savage competition, ruthless exploitation, and deceit, and yet, Dawkins argues, acts of apparent altruism do exist in nature. Bees, for example, will commit suicide when they sting to protect the hive, and birds will risk their lives to warn the flock of an approaching hawk.
This 30th anniversary edition of Dawkins' fascinating book retains all original material, including the two enlightening chapters added in the second edition. In a new Introduction the author presents his thoughts thirty years after the publication of his first and most famous book, while the inclusion of the two-page original Foreword by brilliant American scientist Robert Trivers shows the enthusiastic reaction of the scientific community at that time. This edition is a celebration of a remarkable exposition of evolutionary thought, a work that has been widely hailed for its stylistic brilliance and deep scientific insights, and that continues to stimulate whole new areas of research today.
2022年6月23日 已读
听起来很离谱其实是科普的non-fic,举的例子很生动,讲解很详细,大部分时间是用博弈论和进化论结合在解释自然界各种有机体的发展规律和相互关系,迷因那一段真的是太震惊了!meme is literally a living structure我无法反驳,以及meme这个表达原来是这本书确定下来的,学到了(另外写性别博弈那一段,真的很难不思考人类雌性为何混得那么惨
美国 非虚构
父权制与资本主义 豆瓣 谷歌图书 Goodreads
家父长制と资本制 ― マルクス主义フェミニズムの地平
9.1 (210 个评分) 作者: [日] 上野千鹤子 译者: 邹韵 / 薛梅 浙江大学出版社 2020 - 3
什么是父权制?当代女性又是如何遭到父权制压迫和剥削的?女性解放道路在何方?
本书是作者历经十年完成的重要作品,是其在第二波女性主义接近尾声,后现代女性主义思潮、酷儿理论兴起之初,对女权主义各个派别,特别是马克思主义女权主义的再次思考。近代社会在“资本主义”支配的“市场”和“父权制”支配的“家庭形态双重控制下,以无偿的女性劳务等为中心,形成了女性地位低下的历史根源。 作者对此进行了深刻批判,并就如何改善女性的社会地位提出了中肯的建议。
本书尽管论述的是日本女性的地位问题,但其观点在相当大程度上适用于当下中国的国情。因而对于任何思考女性地位与男女平等问题的人都有着莫大的启发。
2022年7月27日 已读
非常学术化理论化的一本书,有点阅读门槛,当女权启蒙读物是肯定不行的,但实际上阅读感受一点也不晦涩,甚至感觉非常丝滑,逻辑和论证都很清晰顺畅。这本主要是从生产和再生产、家庭和市场角度分析女性在家庭和职场所扮演的角色以及承受的结构性压迫,有很多值得认真思考的点,总的来说非常赞同的是女权运动的目标不仅是打破父权,同时还有打破国别、种族、阶级和年龄等种种分裂,最终构建feminism internationalism,啊看到这个词感觉整个人都振奋起来了呢
女性主义 日本 非虚构