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This Time Tomorrow Goodreads
This Time Tomorrow
作者: Emma Straub
On the eve of her 40th birthday, Alice's life isn't terrible
She likes her job, even if it isn't exactly the one she expected. She's happy with her apartment, her romantic status, her independence, and she adores her lifelong best friend. But her father is ailing, and it feels to her as if something is missing. When she wakes up the next morning she finds herself back in 1996, reliving her 16th birthday. But it isn't just her adolescent body that shocks her, or seeing her high school crush, it's her dad: the vital, charming, 40-something version of her father with whom she is reunited. Now armed with a new perspective on her own life and his, some past events take on new meaning. Is there anything that she would change if she could?
2022年5月3日 想读
I'm More Dateable than a Plate of Refried Beans: And Other Romantic Observations Goodreads
作者: Ginny Hogan Chronicle Books 2022 - 5
Through hilarious, absurd-yet-relatable short stories, quizzes, over-think pieces, and more, Hogan details every stage of a modern relationship—from meeting on an app to becoming official, to breaking up or getting married, to being single.
Find out how to successfully ignore any and all red flags. Take a quiz to see if that anxiety attack you're having means you're in a new relationship or if it's that cold brew you just chugged. Read chilling tales about the unfortunate few who actually did lose their phones (they didn't mean to ghost you, they promise).
Begging to be shared with friends or sat next to your phone full of Tinder notifications,
is the ultimate humor book for anyone who is dating or has ever dated.
: This hilarious book has a little something for everybody, whether you're single, dating, married, monogamous, polyamorous—you name it!
: Full of absurd yet relatable stories, quirky lists, quizzes and more, this is a nice repose to other modern dating books, whose pages try to offer sincere advice. Modern dating is weird and sometimes you just need to commiserate and laugh!
: This book begs to be shared, a fun gift for your single friends, friends who are dating, and even your friends who are married!
Perfect for:
• Anyone who has dated or is dating
• Galentine's day, birthday, and holiday shoppers
• Parents looking for gifts for their tech-savvy Millennial and Gen Z kids
• Fans of
Men by Blythe Roberson,
by Amy Solomon, and
by Cazzie David
2022年5月3日 想读
Another Country 豆瓣
作者: James Baldwin Vintage 1992
Set in Greenwich Village, Harlem, and France, among other locales, Another Country is a novel of passions--sexual, racial, political, artistic--that is stunning for its emotional intensity and haunting sensuality, depicting men and women, blacks and whites, stripped of their masks of gender and race by love and hatred at the most elemental and sublime. In a small set of friends, Baldwin imbues the best and worst intentions of liberal America in the early 1970s.
2022年5月2日 想读
Chatter 豆瓣 Goodreads
作者: Ethan Kross Penguin Random House USA 2021 - 1 其它标题: Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It
An award-winning psychologist reveals the hidden power of our inner voice and shows how we can harness it to live a healthier, more satisfying, and more productive life.
“This book is going to fundamentally change some of the most important conversations in your life—the ones you have with yourself.”—Adam Grant, bestselling author of Give and Take
One of the best new books of the year—The Washington Post, BBC, CNN Underscored, Shape, Behavioral Scientist, PopSugar • Kirkus Reviews and Publishers Weekly starred reviews • Next Big Idea Club Finalist
Tell a stranger that you talk to yourself, and you’re likely to get written off as eccentric. But the truth is that we all have a voice in our head. When we talk to ourselves, we often hope to tap into our inner coach but find our inner critic instead. When we’re facing a tough task, our inner coach can buoy us up: Focus—you can do this. But, just as often, our inner critic sinks us entirely: I’m going to fail. They’ll all laugh at me. What’s the use?
In Chatter, acclaimed psychologist Ethan Kross explores the silent conversations we have with ourselves. Interweaving groundbreaking behavioral and brain research from his own lab with real-world case studies—from a pitcher who forgets how to pitch, to a Harvard undergrad negotiating her double life as a spy—Kross explains how these conversations shape our lives, work, and relationships. He warns that giving in to negative and disorienting self-talk—what he calls “chatter”—can tank our health, sink our moods, strain our social connections, and cause us to fold under pressure.
But the good news is that we’re already equipped with the tools we need to make our inner voice work in our favor. These tools are often hidden in plain sight—in the words we use to think about ourselves, the technologies we embrace, the diaries we keep in our drawers, the conversations we have with our loved ones, and the cultures we create in our schools and workplaces.
Brilliantly argued, expertly researched, and filled with compelling stories, Chatter gives us the power to change the most important conversation we have each day: the one we have with ourselves.
2022年5月2日 想读
Boys and Sex 豆瓣
作者: Peggy Orenstein Harper 2020 - 1
The author of the groundbreaking New York Times bestsellers Girls & Sex and Cinderella Ate My Daughter now turns her focus to the sexual lives of young men, once again offering “both an examination of sexual culture and a guide on how to improve it” (Washington Post).
Peggy Orenstein’s Girls & Sex broke ground, shattered taboos, and launched conversations about young women’s right to pleasure and agency in sexual encounters. It also had an unexpected effect on its author: Orenstein realized that talking about girls is only half the conversation. Boys are subject to the same cultural forces as girls—steeped in the same distorted media images and binary stereotypes of female sexiness and toxic masculinity—which equally affect how they navigate sexual and emotional relationships. In Boys & Sex, Peggy Orenstein dives back into the lives of young people to once again give voice to the unspoken, revealing how young men understand and negotiate the new rules of physical and emotional intimacy.
Drawing on comprehensive interviews with young men, psychologists, academics, and experts in the field, Boys & Sex dissects so-called locker room talk; how the word “hilarious” robs boys of empathy; pornography as the new sex education; boys’ understanding of hookup culture and consent; and their experience as both victims and perpetrators of sexual violence. By surfacing young men’s experience in all its complexity, Orenstein is able to unravel the hidden truths, hard lessons, and important realities of young male sexuality in today’s world. The result is a provocative and paradigm-shifting work that offers a much-needed vision of how boys can truly move forward as better men.
2022年5月2日 想读
Mount Analogue 豆瓣
作者: René Daumal / Carol Cosman 译者: Shattuck, Roger Overlook TP 2004 - 3
In this novel/allegory the narrator/author sets sail in the yacht Impossible to search for Mount Analogue, the geographically located, albeit hidden, peak that reaches inexorably toward heaven. Daumal's symbolic mountain represents a way to truth that "cannot not exist," and his classic allegory of man's search for himself embraces the certainty that one can know and conquer one's own reality.
2022年4月27日 想读
Family Lexicon 豆瓣 Goodreads
作者: Ginzburg, Natalia NYRB Classics 2017 - 4
An Italian family, sizable, with its routines and rituals, crazes, pet phrases, and stories, doubtful, comical, indispensable, comes to life in the pages of Natalia Ginzburg’s <em>Family Lexicon</em>. Giuseppe Levi, the father, is a scientist, consumed by his work and a mania for hiking—when he isn’t provoked into angry remonstration by someone misspeaking or misbehaving or wearing the wrong thing. Giuseppe is Jewish, married to Lidia, a Catholic, though neither is religious; they live in the industrial city of Turin where, as the years pass, their children find ways of their own to medicine, marriage, literature, politics. It is all very ordinary, except that the background to the story is Mussolini’s Italy in its steady downward descent to race law and world war. The Levis are, among other things, unshakeable anti-fascists. That will complicate their lives.<br /><br />Family Lexicon is about a family and language—and about storytelling not only as a form of survival but also as an instrument of deception and domination. The book takes the shape of a novel, yet everything is true. “Every time that I have found myself inventing something in accordance with my old habits as a novelist, I have felt impelled at once to destroy [it],” Ginzburg tells us at the start. “The places, events, and people are all real.”
2022年4月27日 想读
Happiness as Such 豆瓣 Goodreads
作者: Natalia Ginzburg / Minna Proctor 译者: Minna Proctor W. W. Norton & Company 2019 - 6
At the heart of Happiness As Such is an absence―an abyss that draws everyone nearer to its edge―created by the departure of a family’s wayward only son, Michele, who has fled from Italy to England to escape the dangers and threats of his radical political ties. This novel is part epistolary: his mother writes letters to him, nagging him; his sister Angelica writes to him too; so does Mara, his former lover, who gave birth to a child who could be his own. Left to clean up Michele’s mess, his family and friends complain and commiserate, making mistakes and missteps, attempting to cope in the only ways that they know how. With a few brushstrokes, Natalia Ginzburg can flesh out an entire existence and all its pitfalls and disappointments with unmatched clarity.
2022年4月27日 想读
Ace of Shades 豆瓣
Welcome to the City of Sin, where casino families reign, gangs infest the streets…and secrets hide in every shadowEnne Salta was raised as a proper young lady, and no lady would willingly visit New Reynes, the so-called City of Sin. But when her mother goes missing, Enne must leave her finishing school—and her reputation—behind to follow her mother’s trail to the city where no one survives uncorrupted.Frightened and alone, Enne has only one lead: the name Levi Glaisyer. Unfortunately, Levi is not the gentleman she expected—he’s a street lord and con man. Levi is also only one payment away from cleaning up a rapidly unraveling investment scam, so he doesn’t have time to investigate a woman leading a dangerous double life. Enne’s offer of compensation, however, could be the solution to all his problems. Their search for clues leads them through glamorous casinos, illicit cabarets and into the clutches of a ruthless Mafia donna. As Enne unearths an impossible secret about her past, Levi’s enemies catch up to them, ensnaring him in a vicious execution game where the players always lose. To save him, Enne will need to surrender herself to the city…And she’ll need to play.
2022年4月24日 想读
The Bachelors 豆瓣
作者: Spark, Muriel 2000 - 10
A barrister, a "priest", a detective, a lovelorn Irishman, a handwriting expert, a heinous spiritual medium -- the very British bachelors of Muriel Spark's supreme 1960 novel come in every stripe.First found contentedly chatting in their London clubs and shopping at Fortnum's, the cozy bachelors (as any Spark reader might guess) are not set to stay cozy for long. Soon enough, the men are variously tormented -- defrauded or stolen from; blackmailed or pressed to attend horrid seances -- and then plunged, all together, into the nastiest of lawsuits. At the center of that suit hovers pale, blank Patrick Seton, the medium. Meanwhile, horrors of every size plague the poor bachelors -- from the rising price of frozen peas ("Your hand's never out of your pocket") to epileptic fits, forgeries, spiritualists foaming with protoplasm, and murder. And every horror delights: each is lit up by Spark's uncanny wit -- at once malicious, funny, and deadly serious. The Bachelors shows "the most gifted and innovative British novelist" (The New York Times) at her wicked best.
2022年4月24日 想读
长乐路 豆瓣 谷歌图书 Goodreads
STREET OF ETERNAL HAPPINESS
8.3 (129 个评分) 作者: [美] 史明智 译者: 王笑月 上海译文出版社 2018 - 3
一家花店、一块三明治、一份投资合同,
一座城市中的梦想。
一盒信、一个户口、一封动迁通知,
一条街道里的中国。
长乐路长约3.2公里。
在地图上,长乐路是一段很短的波浪线,位于上海市中心地标人民广场的西南方。我的家在波浪线的最西端。从窗口向下望,树叶堆成的华盖常年都在两层楼高处徘徊。
中国极少有这般绿树成荫的街道。19世纪中叶,当欧美国家瓜分这座城市、划界而治时,法国人在租界里种下了这些梧桐。将近一个世纪后,法国人走了,树留了下来。日本人曾轰炸并占领过上海一段时间,但最终他们也从这座城市撤离,梧桐完好无损。随后,共产党来了,经历了“文化大革命”、阶级斗争,很多人英年早逝。这些树依旧傲然挺立。
如今,长乐路上的餐厅、小店琳琅满目,极具小资情调。当我漫步于人行道上,不禁想起这条路见证的那些风起云涌。此处,一个帝国崛起、衰落、又再次崛起。唯有树木恒立。
在长乐路上闲逛之所以让人如此心旷神怡,还要多亏像CK这样的人,正是他们心中怀揣的理想和情怀,支撑起这条狭窄马路两边的各色小店和咖啡馆。这些目光炯炯的外来者将各种梦想层层叠叠垒在一起,希望有机会在大城市里将它们实现。
我想到在大理遇见的那些人心中的梦想,想到亨利在街对面的高楼里分享的有关中国的梦想。我想到了现下充满意味的“中国梦”。
我想到麦琪里的老康、“陈市长”和他的妻子。他们的梦想很简单,只想在自己家里好好过平静安生的日子。
我想到50年代王明一家的通信,想到60年代冯叔和傅姨建设新疆的故事。当时谁又能想到,在50年后的今天,中国人还能肆意梦想、甚至拥有追梦的手段和自由?
2022年4月23日 想读
Babysitter 豆瓣
作者: Joyce Carol Oates 2022 - 8
From one of America's most renowned storytellers comes a novel about love and deceit, and lust and redemption, against a background of child abductions in the affluent suburbs of Detroit.
In the waning days of the turbulent 1970s, in the wake of unsolved killings that have shocked Detroit, the lives of several residents are drawn together, with tragic consequences. There is Hannah, wife of a prominent local businessman, who has begun an affair with a darkly charismatic stranger whose identity remains elusive; Mikey, a canny street hustler who finds himself on an unexpected mission to rectify injustice; and the serial killer known as Babysitter, an enigmatic and terrifying figure at the periphery of elite Detroit. As Babysitter continues his rampage of killings, these individuals intersect with one another in startling and unexpected ways.
Suspenseful, brilliantly orchestrated and engrossing, Babysitter is a starkly narrated exploration of the riskiness of pursuing alternate lives, calling into question how far we are willing to go to protect those whom we cherish most. In its scathing indictment of corrupt politics, unexamined racism, and the enabling of sexual predation in America, Babysitter is a thrilling work of contemporary fiction.
2022年4月21日 想读
The Flight of the Heron 豆瓣
作者: Broster, D. K.
Dorothy Kathleen Broster (1877-1950) was a British novelist and short-story writer, who served as a Red Cross nurse during World War I with a voluntary Franco-American hospital. Best known for Jacobite Trilogy, featuring the dashing hero Ewen Cameron, which begins with The Flight of the Heron and continues with The Gleam in the North and The Dark Mile.
2022年4月21日 想读
Sword at Sunset 豆瓣
作者: Sutcliff, Rosemary 2008 - 5
This brilliant reconception of the Arthurian epic cuts through the familiar myths and tells the story of the real King Arthur: Artos the Bear, the mighty warrior-king who saved the last lights of Western civilization when the barbarian darkness descended in the fifth century. Artos here comes alive: bold and forceful in battle, warm and generous in friendship, tough in politics, shrewd in the strategy of war--and tender and tragically tormented in love. Out of the interweaving of ancient legend, fresh research, soaring imagination, and hypnotic narrative skill comes a novel that has richly earned its reputation as a classic.
2022年4月21日 想读
Of Women and Salt Goodreads
Of Women and Salt
作者: Gabriela Garcia Flatiron Books 2021 - 3
In present-day Miami, Jeanette is battling addiction. Daughter of Carmen, a Cuban immigrant, she is determined to learn more about her family history from her reticent mother and makes the snap decision to take in the daughter of a neighbor detained by ICE. Carmen, still wrestling with the trauma of displacement, must process her difficult relationship with her own mother while trying to raise a wayward Jeanette. Steadfast in her quest for understanding, Jeanette travels to Cuba to see her grandmother and reckon with secrets from the past destined to erupt.
From 19th-century cigar factories to present-day detention centers, from Cuba to Mexico, Gabriela Garcia's Of Women and Salt is a kaleidoscopic portrait of betrayals—personal and political, self-inflicted and those done by others—that have shaped the lives of these extraordinary women. A haunting meditation on the choices of mothers, the legacy of the memories they carry, and the tenacity of women who choose to tell their stories despite those who wish to silence them, this is more than a diaspora story; it is a story of America’s most tangled, honest, human roots.
2022年4月21日 想读
Extenuating Circumstances Goodreads
作者: Joyce Carol Oates
Two hitmen in a depressed rust belt town struggle with a job gone wrong. A girl witnesses a horrifying accident and carries it with her for the rest of her life. Medical students bring a severed foot to a college party. Five-time Pulitzer Prize finalist Joyce Carol Oates has made a career of exploring the forbidden corners of human experience, and the stories collected here, spanning her first three decades as a writer, are among her most unsettling and unforgettable works to date.
Originally published in long out-of-print volumes, these tales have not appeared in any form this century—until now; formally fresh and endlessly experimental, they show a writer boldly engaging with disturbing truths and terrifying possibilities, and deconstructing the tropes and expectations of traditional prose writing as she does so. But beyond their stylistic ingenuity, these are creepy, suspenseful stories that cut straight to the bone; their darkness will linger long after the final page is turned.
A must-read for long-time fans of Joyce Carol Oates and an excellent introduction for the uninitiated, the twenty-two tales included in
exemplify the author’s idiosyncratic spookiness, “visceral, psychologically involving, and socially astute" (Booklist).
2022年4月21日 想读
Easy Beauty Goodreads 豆瓣
Easy Beauty
作者: Chloé Cooper Jones Avid Reader Press 2022 - 4
From Chloé Cooper Jones—Pulitzer Prize finalist, philosophy professor, Whiting Creative Nonfiction Grant recipient—a groundbreaking memoir about disability, motherhood, and a journey to far-flung places in search of a new way of seeing and being seen.
“I am in a bar in Brooklyn, listening to two men, my friends, discuss whether my life is worth living.”
So begins ChloéCooper Jones’s bold, revealing account of moving through the world in a body that looks different than most. Jones learned early on to factor “pain calculations” into every plan, every situation. Born with a rare congenital condition called sacral agenesis which affects both her stature and gait, her pain is physical. But there is also the pain of being judged and pitied for her appearance, of being dismissed as “less than.” The way she has been seen—or not seen—has informed her lens on the world her entire life. She resisted this reality by excelling academically and retreating to “the neutral room in her mind” until it passed. But after unexpectedly becoming a mother (in violation of unspoken social taboos about the disabled body), something in her shifts, and Jones sets off on a journey across the globe, reclaiming the spaces she’d been denied, and denied herself.
From the bars and domestic spaces of her life in Brooklyn to sculpture gardens in Rome; from film festivals in Utah to a Beyoncé concert in Milan; from a tennis tournament in California to the Killing Fields of Phnom Penh, Jones weaves memory, observation, experience, and aesthetic philosophy to probe the myths underlying our standards of beauty and desirability, and interrogates her own complicity in upholding those myths.
With its emotional depth, its prodigious, spiky intelligence, its passion and humor, Easy Beauty is the rare memoir that has the power to make you see the world, and your place in it, with new eyes.
2022年4月20日 想读
战火家园 豆瓣
Home Fire
作者: [英]卡米拉·夏姆斯 译者: 朱双南 中信出版集团 2019 - 4
·卡米拉·夏姆斯的作品总是用文学来探讨严肃的政治话题,并用人性化的方式来讲述残酷的事实。
·夏姆斯的作品,是可以当作历史小说来看的。在她的书中,记录了近几十年来人类现代史的关键事件。读她的小说,仿佛打开了一扇窗户,让人类回望曾经走过的那个世纪的恐怖和混乱。
·《战火家园》中的内政大臣是巴基斯坦裔。而就在这本书出版之后不久,现实生活中,身为巴基斯坦裔的萨义德·贾维德真的当选英国内政大臣。夏姆斯所写的从来不是遥远的过去,而是真实的现在。
伊丝玛是一位在英国的穆斯林女性,为了抚养年幼的弟妹安妮卡和帕尔维兹,她很早放弃了学业。待弟妹成人,她赴美攻读博士学位。
到美国不久,伊丝玛遇到了英国内政大臣卡拉马特·隆恩的儿子艾蒙·隆恩。同为巴基斯坦移民,卡拉马特和伊丝玛的父祖辈曾有过交集。伊丝玛深恨卡拉马特,却爱上了斯文有礼的艾蒙。她向艾蒙坦白:她的父亲是一名圣战分子……
艾蒙回到英国之后,遇到伊丝玛的妹妹安妮卡,两人一见钟情,很快坠入爱河。不久之后,艾蒙向安妮卡求婚。
安妮卡从未见过她的父亲,她的爱维系在姐姐和双胞胎弟弟的身上,但她似乎有很多秘密。艾蒙的求婚使她的不安浮出水面,她向艾蒙坦白了关于家族和弟弟的另一个巨大秘密……
2022年4月20日 想读
A Thousand Ships Goodreads 豆瓣
A Thousand Ships
作者: Natalie Haynes Mantle; Main Market 2019 - 5
In A Thousand Ships, broadcaster and classicist Natalie Haynes retells the story of the Trojan War from an all-female perspective.
This was never the story of one woman, or two. It was the story of all of them. . .
In the middle of the night, Creusa wakes to find her beloved Troy engulfed in flames. Ten seemingly endless years of brutal conflict between the Greeks and the Trojans are over, and the Greeks are victorious. Over the next few hours, the only life she has ever known will turn to ash . . .
The devastating consequences of the fall of Troy stretch from Mount Olympus to Mount Ida, from the citadel of Troy to the distant Greek islands, and across oceans and sky in between. These are the stories of the women embroiled in that legendary war and its terrible aftermath, as well as the feud and the fatal decisions that started it all. . .
Powerfully told from an all-female perspective, A Thous
2022年4月20日 想读