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Four Thousand Weeks Goodreads 豆瓣 谷歌图书
7.1 (10 个评分) 作者: Oliver Burkeman Farrar, Straus and Giroux 2021 - 8
The average human lifespan is absurdly, insultingly brief. Assuming you live to be eighty, you have just over four thousand weeks.
Nobody needs telling there isn’t enough time. We’re obsessed with our lengthening to-do lists, our overfilled inboxes, work-life balance, and the ceaseless battle against distraction; and we’re deluged with advice on becoming more productive and efficient, and “life hacks” to optimize our days. But such techniques often end up making things worse. The sense of anxious hurry grows more intense, and still the most meaningful parts of life seem to lie just beyond the horizon. Still, we rarely make the connection between our daily struggles with time and the ultimate time management problem: the challenge of how best to use our four thousand weeks.
Drawing on the insights of both ancient and contemporary philosophers, psychologists, and spiritual teachers, Oliver Burkeman delivers an entertaining, humorous, practical, and ultimately profound guide to time and time management. Rejecting the futile modern fixation on “getting everything done,” Four Thousand Weeks introduces readers to tools for constructing a meaningful life by embracing finitude, showing how many of the unhelpful ways we’ve come to think about time aren’t inescapable, unchanging truths, but choices we’ve made as individuals and as a society—and that we could do things differently.
2023年10月25日 已读
挺好的,听的,留下最深印象的就一个高频重复词:finite,时间是有限的,精力是有限的,所以要按照有限的时间来过日子,而不要抱着拥有无限时间和无限精力的幻想强迫自己。整本书的内容基本看这个 wiki page:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_Thousand_Weeks:_Time_Management_for_Mortals 加上 goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/54785515-four-thousand-weeks 里的前三条高赞评论就够了。
选择卓越 豆瓣
Great By Choice
作者: 【美】吉姆•柯林斯 / 【美】莫滕•T•汉森 译者: 陈召强 2012 - 11
《基业长青》、《从优秀到卓越》、《再造卓越》,百万畅销书作者最新力作!
★★★★★
《选择卓越》不同于柯林斯先前的著作,这是因为它的关注重点不仅仅在业绩表现上,还在时下领导者所面临的不稳定的环境类型上。基于超过20人的研究团队,柯林斯和汉森对那些在充满巨大力量和急剧变革——这都是领导者所无法预测或控制的——的环境中取得卓越成就的公司进行了研究。研究结果颇具争议性,亦让人感到吃惊。比如,最优秀的领导者并不比对比组公司的领导者更具冒险精神、更具远见或更具创造性;他们更恪守纪律,更注重实证验证,更为焦虑。
在一个混乱的、充满不确定性的世界里,创新本身并不是一张王牌,更重要的是适度创新的能力和将创造性与纪律相结合的能力。
通过引人深思的、黏性的和极其有力的实践概念,作者对传统智慧发起了挑战。这些概念包括:10倍速领导者;20英里征程;先发射子弹,后发射炮弹;超越生死线;先将镜头拉远,后将镜头拉近;以及SMaC方法。
柯林斯和汉森在《选择卓越》的最后一章向读者呈现了他们最具争议和最为新颖的分析:对运气角色的定义、量化和研究。卓越公司及其领导者并不比对比组公司及其领导者更有运气,但却获得了更高的运气回报率。本书是典型的柯林斯式著作:反传统、数据驱动、振奋人心。他和汉森以令人信服的证据表明,即便是在一个混乱的、充满不确定性的世界里,卓越也可以通过选择而非运气来实现。
★★★★★
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这是一本研究在相同的环境下,为什么结果不同的书,是一本研究在动荡环境中,如何通过“选择”来创造伟大公司的管理著作。这本书不是强调如何行动,而是强调如何选择。
——锡恩咨询集团董事长 姜汝祥
本书中关于子弹与炮弹的比喻十分有说服力,对盖茨和微软WINDOWS、乔布斯和苹果IPOD的这两个脍炙人口的成功案例回顾中,揭开了常被高度激赏无限崇拜的两个神奇崛起的面纱,还原了两个尝试、修订、放大、调整的领导者的本来,这种走下神坛,不是英雄褪色,而是常识落地,更消除了对于我们所从事的商业和管理行当那种“巫术”般的神秘误读,让可学习性、可应用性大大增强。这也让创业者和企业家更有信心。
——清华大学经济管理学院高级副院长 清华领导力中心主任 杨斌
这本书颠覆了很多对于成就卓越企业的错误判断,尤其是重新反思实现流行的创新和变革对于企业的意义。
——《商业价值》杂志出版人 刘湘明
“取得成功是一回事儿。但是,要想在充满剧变、破坏和动荡的经济环境中取得成功,就要另当别论了。那么,一些公司是如何在这样的环境下成功的呢?管理大师吉姆•柯林斯首次披露其中的玄机。
——《财富》
“这本书为那些深受宏观经济危机冲击的公司提供了有意义的、合时宜的和精准的信息。”——《金融时报》
“通过研究,柯林斯和汉森得出了一些有趣的且有违直觉的结论……这绝不是枯燥的社会科学。柯林斯先生善于驾驭文字,其中尤以隐喻见长。”
——《华尔街日报》
“企业家和商业领导者或许会在本书中发现有用的概念,而在决策中运用这些概念将会提升他们打造卓越公司的几率。”
——《书目》杂志
2023年10月2日 已读
again 和 good to great 一样,估计得 managerial position/mindset 的时候再读会比较好懂。而且得读不能听,听着听着就跟不上了 😂
Educated 豆瓣
8.7 (88 个评分) 作者: Tara Westover Random House 2018 - 2
Educated is an account of the struggle for self-invention. It is a tale of fierce family loyalty, and of the grief that comes from severing one’s closest ties. With the acute insight that distinguishes all great writers, Westover has crafted a universal coming-of-age story that gets to the heart of what an education is and what it offers: the perspective to see one’s life through new eyes, and the will to change it.
2023年10月2日 已读
第一次读这本书是几年前它刚出立刻成为各大读书排行榜 best seller 的时候,啥背景都不知道就翻开看,一个大山里的姑娘在垃圾堆里工作、不上学、在一个近乎于反智的家庭里活着。有一天翻到封底,发现,嗯?作者没上过正经教育还能一路杨百翰、剑桥、哈佛念出个 phd 来?!这是什么天赋异禀,我感受到了巨大的背叛,于是就弃了。但同时心里也是知道这书里一定有什么很珍贵的表达,只是我自己还没有准备好、被自己的偏见 blindsighted 了。这次书荒的间隙重新捡起来听,I'm glad I don't miss it this time. 这种反智的家庭,父母给孩子有爱但是不多,pua 和 gaslighting 倒是随处可见,父亲和兄弟还有很严重的精神疾病,符合心意的就是神的旨意、不合心意的就是恶魔在作祟。就这样一个家庭里六个孩子,三个学出了博士学位,三个高中肄业一辈子生活在大山里。有些路就是这么巧么?这本书虽然起名为 “educated”,但是学校教育是很小一部分,大部分的内容都是家庭相关(原生家庭,此处省略几百字。。。)只在最后她终于决定离开,感同身受,又觉得似乎我妈也没她父母那么夸脏呢,是不是还可以试试。不死心啊。是不是也跟作者一样,虽然母亲坚定的不见她,但是她还是每年主动写一封信邀请母亲见面。哎……
Good To Great 豆瓣
作者: James C. Collins Harperbusiness 2005 - 9
2023年9月11日 已读
感觉这本书不能靠听,好多没 get 到的地方。最出戏的是说好了要最好的公司,结果反复聊 wells fargo。我相信作者 research 的时候一定都是选了最好的公司啦,但是时间一直往前走,现在的 wells fargo 贼拉垮 ==
The Long Game Goodreads 谷歌图书
作者: Dorie Clark Harvard Business Press 2021 - 09 其它标题: The Long Game: How to Be a Long-Term Thinker in a Short-Term World
A Wall Street Journal BestsellerYour personal goals need a long-term strategy.It's no secret that we're pushed to the limit. Today's professionals feel rushed, overwhelmed, and perennially behind. So we keep our heads down, focused on the next thing, and the next, without a moment to breathe.How can we break out of this endless cycle and create the kind of interesting, meaningful lives we all seek?Just as CEOs who optimize for quarterly profits often fail to make the strategic investments necessary for long-term growth, the same is true in our own personal and professional lives. We need to reorient ourselves to see the big picture so we can tap into the power of small changes that, made today, will have an enormous and disproportionate impact on our future success. We need to start playing The Long Game.As top business thinker and Duke University professor Dorie Clark explains, we all know intellectually that lasting success takes persistence and effort. And yet so much of the relentless pressure in our culture pushes us toward doing what's easy, what's guaranteed, or what looks glamorous in the moment. In The Long Game, she argues for a different path. It's about doing small things over time to achieve our goals—and being willing to keep at them, even when they seem pointless, boring, or hard.In The Long Game, Clark shares unique principles and frameworks you can apply to your specific situation, as well as vivid stories from her own career and other professionals' experiences. Everyone is allotted the same twenty-four hours—but with the right strategies, you can leverage those hours in more efficient and powerful ways than you ever imagined. It's never an overnight process, but the long-term payoff is immense: to finally break out of the frenetic day-to-day routine and transform your life and your career.
2023年8月28日 已读
估计是在图书馆听书app上随机看到的,不是那种特别精彩的,但它是对于职业建立长期 mindset 是很不错的提醒——但是也有点难以想象,我真的想象不到十年之后我的职业 day to day 是什么样子。虽然它在 vision 上帮不了忙,但是在 strategy 上还蛮有帮助的。特别是社交那一章,一个是“you want an invitation, you need to give an invitation”;另一个是关于为什么职场上约 senior 的人越不会因为社交而紧张,一个可能的原因是喜欢社交的人更容易成为 senior,另一个是成为 senior 之后知道自己有些可以在 “use people” 这件事上值得交换的东西。和另一个刚看过的综艺《how to get rich》里 cue 到的类似,职场上人们还是很愿意花 15-20分钟听你说说给你职业建议/资源交换的。
特别有趣的是,跑半马的时候在听这本书的后半段(两个小时左右),跑不动的时候突然讲到10年 career,然后就开始 imagine 自己的十年 career。那当然是想不出个啥了,但是两三年的还是可以想象的。在一个 long run 上听一本 long game 的书想象 long-term career~
Ikigai 豆瓣
作者: Héctor García / Francesc Miralles Hutchinson 2017 - 9
“Only staying active will make you want to live a hundred years.” —Japanese proverb
According to the Japanese, everyone has an ikigai—a reason for living. And according to the residents of the Japanese village with the world’s longest-living people, finding it is the key to a happier and longer life. Having a strong sense of ikigai—the place where passion, mission, vocation, and profession intersect—means that each day is infused with meaning. It’s the reason we get up in the morning. It’s also the reason many Japanese never really retire (in fact there’s no word in Japanese that means retire in the sense it does in English): They remain active and work at what they enjoy, because they’ve found a real purpose in life—the happiness of always being busy.
In researching this book, the authors interviewed the residents of the Japanese village with the highest percentage of 100-year-olds—one of the world’s Blue Zones. Ikigai reveals the secrets to their longevity and happiness: how they eat, how they move, how they work, how they foster collaboration and community, and—their best-kept secret—how they find the ikigai that brings satisfaction to their lives. And it provides practical tools to help you discover your own ikigai. Because who doesn’t want to find happiness in every day?
2023年8月23日 已读
这事儿就离谱,这本书是我很喜欢的大老板推荐的7本 leadership 相关的书之一,由于这个书单里还有孙子兵法、亚里士多德之类过于上古先贤,所以挑了个看起来最 practical 的,结果西方人讲东方思想么,well,长寿秘诀是吃八分饱和不退休、从妈咪妈咪哄里每一个字儿的意思解释到气功,我也实在不能领会这些事儿和 leadership 有啥关系。估计,鹅,就是,我功力太浅薄吧(屁,扮猪吃老虎我也装不下去了
What Happened 豆瓣
6.8 (8 个评分) 作者: Hillary Rodham Clinton Simon & Schuster 2017 - 9
For the first time, Hillary Rodham Clinton reveals what she was thinking and feeling during one of the most controversial and unpredictable presidential elections in history. Now free from the constraints of running, Hillary takes you inside the intense personal experience of becoming the first woman nominated for president by a major party in an election marked by rage, sexism, exhilarating highs and infuriating lows, stranger-than-fiction twists, Russian interference, and an opponent who broke all the rules. This is her most personal memoir yet.
In these pages, she describes what it was like to run against Donald Trump, the mistakes she made, how she has coped with a shocking and devastating loss, and how she found the strength to pick herself back up afterward. With humor and candor, she tells readers what it took to get back on her feet—the rituals, relationships, and reading that got her through, and what the experience has taught her about life. She speaks about the challenges of being a strong woman in the public eye, the criticism over her voice, age, and appearance, and the double standard confronting women in politics.
She lays out how the 2016 election was marked by an unprecedented assault on our democracy by a foreign adversary. By analyzing the evidence and connecting the dots, Hillary shows just how dangerous the forces are that shaped the outcome, and why Americans need to understand them to protect our values and our democracy in the future.
The election of 2016 was unprecedented and historic. What Happened is the story of that campaign and its aftermath—both a deeply intimate account and a cautionary tale for the nation.
2023年8月20日 已读
2023.8.19: 从三星改成四星了!感谢泡泡在之前我读了不到一半暂停的时候 share 对 HRC 的讨论,于是我又听完了!之前我抵触的“完美家庭”的描述其实不多,就那么一点儿跳过就行了。剩下的部分非常真诚,讲清楚了她自己选举前、选举过程那两年的各种过山车、邮件门的始末和中间牵扯的各个机构和个人的影响(包括 FBI、对家 Trump、以最早报道这件事的 NYT 为代表的各家媒体、Facebook 作为新兴媒体、当然还有她自己的所做所为)、以及意料之外 Trump 当选之后她做的事情。也非常 practical,给了很多普通人在 Trump 当选之后保护民主的日常行动。很 inspiring。不过 HRC 确实少一些做明星的气质,能感觉到她经常想开个玩笑啥的但是就没那么搞笑。I totally get it 因为我也是不幽默的人 hhh~

2023.8.9: 种草于泡泡的嘟文:https://douchi.space/@bubblewhale/110637340835222574
听了 32% 决定暂停。前半部分有很多关于希拉里小时候在芝加哥郊区中产家庭和年轻时候做律师的经历,也涉及了一些竞选总统之前做的妇女儿童相关的项目,在女性权利的部分还是有很多 empowering 的地方,包括和 trump 的竞选策略的区别、为什么会输掉也都有蛮好的分析。但是一旦开始讲述家庭部分就是丈夫多完美、女儿孙子孙女多有爱,只能说我没有这个信念所以对这些说辞不仅不买账甚至会抵触整本书。如果可以准确的告诉我那些部分是完美家庭并且直接剪掉我是会听完整本书的。所以打算暂停一阵子,不知道会不会在还书 due date 之前听完就是了。对于希拉里非常克制的表达,我觉得有些微妙,一方面我可以理解作为这样性格的人表达的时候会考虑很多然后再说出口,特别是这么高 profile 的政治人物 + 法律出身 + 女性,但是另一方面也确实很容易让人觉得是不是可以信任你、你说出的东西是不是真的?其实在政策方面我会比较容易相信,但是家庭这么完美么?我很难相信。可是对政治人物就是一旦一个方面不信任了,会对 ta 做的所有事情都开始怀疑。But again,如果有朝一日我可以投票、如果出现一个女性总统候选人并且她支持女性权利,那我还是会选择投票给她的。
The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read 豆瓣
作者: Philippa Perry Penguin Life 2019 - 3
'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton
Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?
In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.
Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:
· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting
· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them
· Break negative cycles and patterns
· Handle your own and your child's feelings
· Understand what different behaviours communicate
Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.
2023年8月7日 已读
听了一半决定还掉。最 enlightening 的是开篇一句话:小孩不会 do what you ask, but do what you do. 可能不仅小孩是这样,大人也会吧。书里提供了各种 reflection 和如何给小孩提供 secure 的成长环境,特别是家长本人是不那么 secure 的类型。well 我没有娃所以意识到,算了,没必要通过养小孩这个分类上的心理类书籍理解自己,看给 normal adult 的书就好了。如果真的是在养小孩的话应该是很有帮助的很 hands-on 的选择吧。
I Will Teach You To Be Rich 豆瓣 谷歌图书
8.6 (9 个评分) 作者: Ramit Sethi Workman Publishing Company 2009 - 3
At last, for a generation that's materially ambitious yet financially clueless comes I Will Teach You To Be Rich , Ramit Sethi's 6-week personal finance program for 20-to-35-year-olds. A completely practical approach delivered with a nonjudgmental style that makes readers want to do what Sethi says, it is based around the four pillars of personal finance— banking, saving, budgeting, and investing—and the wealth-building ideas of personal entrepreneurship.

Sethi covers how to save time by not wasting it managing money; the guns and cars myth of credit cards; how to negotiate like an Indian—the conversation begins with "no"; why "Budgeting Doesn't Have to Suck!"; how to get things rolling—for real—with only $20; what most people don't understand about taxes; how to get a CEO to take you out to lunch; how to avoid the Super Mario Brothers trap by making your savings work harder than you do; the difference between cheap and frugal; the hidden relationship between money and food. Not to mention his first key lesson: Getting started is more important than being the smartest person in the room. Integrated with his website, where readers can use interactive charts, follow up on the latest information, and join the community, it is a hip blueprint to building wealth and financial security.

Every month, 175,000 unique visitors come to Ramit Sethi's website, Iwillteachyoutoberich.com, to discover the path to financial freedom. They praise him thoughtfully ("Your site summarizes everything I want with my life—to be rich in finances, rich in experience, rich in family blessings," Dan Esparza ) and effusively ("Dude, you rock. I love this site!" Richard Wu ). The press has caught on, too: "Ramit Sethi is a rising star in the world of personal finance writing . . . one singularly attuned to the sensibilities of his generation. his style is part frat boy and part silicon Valley geek, with a little bit of San Francisco hipster thrown in" ( San Francisco Chronicle ). His writing is smart, his voice is full of attitude, and his ideas are uncommonly sound and refreshingly hype-free.
2023年8月7日 已读
总的来说这本书强烈按头推荐给对个人财物管理是新手的人,基本上在北美生活的 personal finance 相关的方方面面都多少涉及了一些,最重要的是提供了很靠谱的手把手指南,只要看得懂字儿、没啥心理上的退却和逃避,都可以丝滑和轻易跟着做下来!(想强调这个心理上的逃避,因为我是逃避了一年才重新捡起来的 哈哈,但是只要在做,就永远不嫌晚。这本书我是会一直留着当作 reference book 时不时需要回来翻一翻的~

每一周的 summary 和 action items 都写在这个嘟嘟串儿里啦:https://go5.dev/@teabagpot/108763132372594079
Yellowface Eggplant.place 豆瓣 谷歌图书 Goodreads
7.3 (49 个评分) 作者: R. F. Kuang William Morrow 2023 - 5
What’s the harm in a pseudonym? New York Times bestselling sensation Juniper Song is not who she says she is, she didn’t write the book she claims she wrote, and she is most certainly not Asian American—in this chilling and hilariously cutting novel from R. F. Kuang in the vein of White Ivy and The Other Black Girl.
Authors June Hayward and Athena Liu were supposed to be twin rising stars: same year at Yale, same debut year in publishing. But Athena’s a cross-genre literary darling, and June didn’t even get a paperback release. Nobody wants stories about basic white girls, June thinks.
So when June witnesses Athena’s death in a freak accident, she acts on impulse: she steals Athena’s just-finished masterpiece, an experimental novel about the unsung contributions of Chinese laborers to the British and French war efforts during World War I.
So what if June edits Athena’s novel and sends it to her agent as her own work? So what if she lets her new publisher rebrand her as Juniper Song—complete with an ambiguously ethnic author photo? Doesn’t this piece of history deserve to be told, whoever the teller? That’s what June claims, and the New York Times bestseller list seems to agree.
But June can’t get away from Athena’s shadow, and emerging evidence threatens to bring June’s (stolen) success down around her. As June races to protect her secret, she discovers exactly how far she will go to keep what she thinks she deserves.
With its totally immersive first-person voice, Yellowface takes on questions of diversity, racism, and cultural appropriation not only in the publishing industry but the persistent erasure of Asian-American voices and history by Western white society. R. F. Kuang’s novel is timely, razor-sharp, and eminently readable.
2023年8月5日 已读
单单就这本书本身来说,很佩服作者下笔把一个 racist white person 的虚伪自私写的这么真实,但是细想一下那个受害的亚裔作者也有很多 privilege 和盲点,她们之间的友谊在最开始也不是很深刻真实的友谊。一边听这本书一边猜测最后故事的结局会是怎样,没想到是以这样的方式。书里的人物有些松散,比如我本来以为 Athena Liu 的妈妈会在后面有更多情节、June 说没想到 Liu 妈妈为什么说 witch 那本书肯定不是 Athena 写的这件事后面好像没有再交代为啥了、最后揭开真相的 Candice 在前面的故事没有任何铺垫最后就突然出现了。瑕不掩瑜,故事本身非常引人入胜,听到停不下来。

因为读到了另一个象友的书评,按图索骥找到 YouTuber @withcindy 对这本书的书评,我才了解到作者本人也是一个 well educated、确实也很有 privilege 的亚裔女性,甚至可能就是书里的 Athena Liu,而 June Hayward 可能是作者本人收到的所有恶意评论、中伤和在出版业面对过的艰难处境的大集合,只不过这个集合被按在了一个 crazy white bitch 身上。出于这个角度,会觉得这本书或许是作者的报复,但是能把自己收到的所有负面评论写成一本吸引人的书也是很厉害啦。至于作者本人是 well-educated、有话语权的,所以这本书就应该揭露更深刻的出版业的种族问题(不单单是歧视,还有种族内的阶级问题),personally 我觉得作者有这样的机会但是她并没有选择用这样的话语权去挖掘更深刻的故事,是一个遗憾,但是不是必须强加于作者的要求。
Know My Name 豆瓣
9.6 (30 个评分) 作者: Chanel Miller Viking 2019 - 9
She was known to the world as Emily Doe when she stunned millions with a letter. Brock Turner had been sentenced to just six months in county jail after he was found sexually assaulting her on Stanford's campus. Her victim impact statement was posted on BuzzFeed, where it instantly went viral--viewed by eleven million people within four days, it was translated globally and read on the floor of Congress; it inspired changes in California law and the recall of the judge in the case. Thousands wrote to say that she had given them the courage to share their own experiences of assault for the first time.
Now she reclaims her identity to tell her story of trauma, transcendence, and the power of words. It was the perfect case, in many ways--there were eyewitnesses, Turner ran away, physical evidence was immediately secured. But her struggles with isolation and shame during the aftermath and the trial reveal the oppression victims face in even the best-case scenarios. Her story illuminates a culture biased to protect perpetrators, indicts a criminal justice system designed to fail the most vulnerable, and, ultimately, shines with the courage required to move through suffering and live a full and beautiful life.
Know My Name will forever transform the way we think about sexual assault, challenging our beliefs about what is acceptable and speaking truth to the tumultuous reality of healing. It also introduces readers to an extraordinary writer, one whose words have already changed our world. Entwining pain, resilience, and humor, this memoir will stand as a modern classic.
2023年7月30日 已读
A Day in the Life of China Goodreads 谷歌图书
A Day in the Life of China (Day in the Life)
9.2 (5 个评分) 作者: David Elliot Cohen Collins 1989 - 10
Released on the 40th anniversary of the founding of the People's Republic, this history in pictures serves as an important and timeless visual record of the world's most populous and enigmatic superpower--a stunning portrait of a nation in the midst of dramatic change.
2023年7月30日 已读
晚上七点半邓小平在家含饴弄孙,午夜12点北大学生张贴告示“看天下胜衰 空有中华四十不兴 民主七十未全 小平八四健在 耀邦七三先死”。那一年的中国百废待兴,各种宗教百花齐放,那里的山河壮美秀丽,各种职业的人们努力奋斗,就连精神病院都洋溢着被美国记者感叹的开明和快乐氛围。那到底是个什么样的年代呢。
The Swiss Nurse 谷歌图书
作者: Mario Escobar Harper Muse 2023 - 04
Based on the true story of an astonishingly brave woman who saved hundreds of mothers and their children during the Spanish Civil War and World War II.Elisabeth Eidenbenz left Switzerland in 1937 to aid children orphaned during the Spanish Civil War. Now, her work has led her to France, where she’s determined to provide expectant mothers and their unborn children a refuge amid one of the worst humanitarian crises of the twentieth century.Desperate to escape the invasion of Franco’s Fascist troops, Isabel Dueñas becomes one of many Spanish patriots fleeing their country. She leaves behind her husband as he fights for democracy, and she seeks asylum in a refugee camp across the border in France. Without adequate shelter, clean drinking water, or medical care, Isabel’s future looks bleak—until she meets Elisabeth.When Germany invades Poland, an avalanche of humanity sweeps into France. In the cascade of crises that follow, Isabel and Elisabeth learn the cost and the unexpected joy of sacrifice.Based on the true stories of refugees and the woman who risked everything to save them, The Swiss Nurse shares a message of love and strength amid one of history’s often overlooked conflicts.World War II historical fiction inspired by true eventsIncludes discussion questions for book clubs, a historical timeline, and notes from the authorBook length: 85,000 wordsAlso by author: Auschwitz Lullaby, Children of the Stars, Remember Me, The Librarian of Saint-Malo, The Teacher of Warsaw
2023年7月25日 已读
听了但是听过就忘了 😂
The Year of Magical Thinking 豆瓣
8.1 (11 个评分) 作者: Joan Didion Knopf 2005 - 10
From one of America’s iconic writers, a stunning book of electric honesty and passion. Joan Didion explores an intensely personal yet universal experience: a portrait of a marriage–and a life, in good times and bad–that will speak to anyone who has ever loved a husband or wife or child.
Several days before Christmas 2003, John Gregory Dunne and Joan Didion saw their only daughter, Quintana, fall ill with what seemed at first flu, then pneumonia, then complete septic shock. She was put into an induced coma and placed on life support. Days later–the night before New Year’s Eve–the Dunnes were just sitting down to dinner after visiting the hospital when John Gregory Dunne suffered a massive and fatal coronary. In a second, this close, symbiotic partnership of forty years was over. Four weeks later, their daughter pulled through. Two months after that, arriving at LAX, she collapsed and underwent six hours of brain surgery at UCLA Medical Center to relieve a massive hematoma.
This powerful book is Didion’s attempt to make sense of the “weeks and then months that cut loose any fixed idea I ever had about death, about illness . . . about marriage and children and memory . . . about the shallowness of sanity, about life itself.”
2023年7月2日 已读 2023.5.18: 看到象友的书评,被打动了:https://hyan.ink/@inward_secret_creatures/110391566415897585
2023.7.1: 听完了,但是感觉很多文字飘过耳朵没有流进心里。非常克制冷静的文字,没有预期的那种丈夫去世女儿重病的大波动的情感流露。这本书是要拿着好好读的。
Reset 豆瓣
作者: Ellen Pao Spiegel & Grau 2017 - 9
The “necessary and incisive” (Roxane Gay) account of the discrimination case that “has blown open a conversation about the status of women” in the workplace (The New York Times)
SHORTLISTED FOR THE 2017 FINANCIAL TIMES AND MCKINSEY BUSINESS BOOK OF THE YEAR | NAMED A BEST FALL BOOK BY ELLE AND BUSTLE
In 2015, Ellen K. Pao sued a powerhouse Silicon Valley venture capital firm, calling out workplace discrimination and retaliation against women and other underrepresented groups. Her suit rocked the tech world—and exposed its toxic culture and its homogeneity. Her message overcame negative PR attacks that took aim at her professional conduct and her personal life, and she won widespread public support—Time hailed her as “the face of change.” Though Pao lost her suit, she revolutionized the conversation at tech offices, in the media, and around the world. In Reset, she tells her full story for the first time.
The daughter of immigrants, Pao was taught that through hard work she could achieve her dreams. She earned multiple Ivy League degrees, worked at top startups, and in 2005 was recruited by Kleiner Perkins, arguably the world’s leading venture capital firm at the time. In many ways, she did everything right, and yet she and other women and people of color were excluded from success—cut out of decisive meetings and email discussions, uninvited to CEO dinners and lavish networking trips, and had their work undercut or appropriated by male executives. It was time for a system reset.
After Kleiner, Pao became CEO of reddit, where she took forceful action to change the status quo for the company and its product. She banned revenge porn and unauthorized nude photos—an action other large media sites later followed—and shut down parts of reddit over online harassment. She and seven other women tech leaders formed Project Include, an award-winning nonprofit for accelerating diversity and inclusion in tech. In her book, Pao shines a light on troubling issues that plague today’s workplace and lays out practical, inspiring, and achievable goals for a better future.
Ellen K. Pao’s Reset is a rallying cry—the story of a whistleblower who aims to empower everyone struggling to be heard, in Silicon Valley and beyond.
Praise for Reset
“Necessary and incisive . . . As Ellen Pao detailed her experiences, while also communicating her passion for the work men often impeded her from doing, I was nothing short of infuriated. It was great to see a highly accomplished woman of color speaking out like this, and hopefully this book will encourage more women to come forward, give voice to their experiences in the workplace, and contribute to meaningful change.”—Roxane Gay
“[Reset delineates] the very fine line that a professional woman in a male-dominated field will, at some point, most likely find herself treading: ‘Is it possible that I am really too ambitious while being too quiet while being too aggressive while being unlikable?’ . . . The genteel chauvinism of the enlightened elites at Kleiner Perkins . . . carried with it the sting of betrayal. They promised her a meritocracy and gave her a glass ceiling instead: ‘It just wasn’t fair.’ She’s right.”—The New York Times Book Review
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“Necessary and incisive . . . As Ellen Pao detailed her experiences while also communicating her passion for the work men often impeded her from doing, I was nothing short of infuriated. It was great to see a highly accomplished woman of color speaking out like this, and hopefully this book will encourage more women to come forward, give voice to their experiences in the workplace, and contribute to meaningful change.”—Roxane Gay
“[Reset delineates] the very fine line that a professional woman in a male-dominated field will, at some point, most likely find herself treading: ‘Is it possible that I am really too ambitious while being too quiet while being too aggressive while being unlikable?’ . . . The genteel chauvinism of the enlightened elites at Kleiner Perkins . . . carried with it the sting of betrayal. They promised her a meritocracy and gave her a glass ceiling instead: ‘It just wasn’t fair.’ She’s right.”—The New York Times Book Review
“If Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In has been the handbook for the rising female executive over the last decade, Ellen Pao’s book [Reset] is its logical companion and should be read alongside it as a staple in every business course.”—Wired
“[Ellen Pao’s] bravery in filing the lawsuit made her a hero to many women and helped change the conversation around sexism in tech. Now, Pao is back . . . with a new book, Reset, which takes readers behind the scenes of the roller coaster she’s been on.”—Marie Claire
“The gender discrimination trial that rocked Silicon Valley may be long over but [Ellen Pao’s] fight is not. And [she] has a message for the white male-dominated tech industry: It’s time for a ‘reset.’ . . . [Reset] is Pao’s defiant post-mortem on her tenure at Kleiner Perkins Caufield & Byers and the stormy courtroom battle that followed.”—USA Today
“Ellen Pao was one of the earliest voices sounding the alarm about bias and discrimination in the tech world.Reset explores the all-too-common challenges she faced and provides an instructive blueprint for equity and fairness.”—Katie Couric
“In [Reset,] Ellen Pao details both the necessity and cost of speaking up. She has been open in discussing the challenges she faced as a woman of color trying to foment change in Silicon Valley.”—Lindy West, The New York Times
“Powerful . . . Sexism in the tech industry is real, pervasive and extremely damaging, as . . . Ellen Pao’s forthcoming book makes clear. . . . There can be no conversation about women in tech without tackling the issue head-on. And thanks to Pao’s lawsuit, that’s what’s been happening for the past few years. . . . Pao opened the floodgates.”—HuffPost
“Ellen Pao [is] a phenomenal woman. . . . For anyone who cherishes the illusion that the tech industry is somehow superior to, say, investment banking, Pao’s book will come as a shock. . . . They say a fish rots from the head down. Same goes for Silicon Valley.”—The Guardian
“Vivid [and] fascinating reading . . . The Broadsheet covered the Pao trial extensively, but it's a very different experience to read her words now. . . . Her willingness to come forward paved the way for [other] whistleblowers. . . . The ‘Pao effect’ . . . is real—and, it seems, just beginning to make its influence felt.”—Fortune
“When women assert ourselves, we confirm the bias against us, unconscious and otherwise. When we speak out, we identify ourselves as troublemakers. This is why I look forward to reading Ellen Pao’s account of her tribulations in Silicon Valley.”—Catherine Mayer, New York Times
“Ellen Pao courageously confronted Silicon Valley’s venture capital world by calling out bias and discrimination. She emerged from a public trial, media frenzy, and a fierce battle against online harassment with her strength, spirit, and voice intact. In Reset, with deep intelligence and a gift for storytelling, Pao movingly and passionately recounts her path to activism and advocacy. Her book offers a rare glimpse into the gender roles and stereotypes that still pervade one of the world’s most profitable trading centers.”—Henry Louis Gates, Jr.
“[In Reset,] Pao shares her story—the fascinating arc of her career and the bias and discrimination she encountered along the way, from Harvard Business School up through her time as CEO of Reddit. . . . To women throughout the tech industry—and to women in similarly male-dominated fields—she was a hero.”—Mashable
“Ellen Pao draws back the curtain in a book that will likely roar through Silicon Valley and beyond. She reveals in detail her experiences as a woman working in the world of tech and gives voice to the experiences of women working across many professions in America today. Writing transparently was courageous, and Pao is hoping it will help people of all backgrounds rise. This woman has guts.”—Ann Curry
2023年6月29日 已读
Ellen Pao 这么 privilege 的女性都躲不过在职场上多年来反复被性别歧视,我还有什么理由不参与讨论这件事、不为它发声?要记得社会的改变来自聚沙成塔、积少成多。自己是一粒沙也要做出一粒沙可以做的事情。
15-Minute Ink Landscapes 谷歌图书
作者: Rosa Hoehn Page Street Publishing 2022 - 11
Learn to Draw in Pen and Ink With Easy Yet Dazzling Landscape Projects

In 50 showstopping nature-inspired projects, Rosa Hoehn invites you to explore all the wonders of pen and ink art. Whether you are looking to hone your artistic skills or to unwind after a long day, follow these simple steps to create impressive line drawing works, all in just 15 minutes! You’ll learn everything you need to know about working with ink—including tips on line weight, shading and creating various frame designs—while also getting to play with delightful mediums like colored pencils, brush pens and watercolors.

Mountain landscapes, desert scenes, beaches and woodlands are just some of the countless vistas you’ll explore, as you build a relaxing art habit and gain confidence in your work. Additionally, Rosa provides insight on designing your own landscapes, with advice and tips that will help you in your creative path. These are a few of the fabulous pieces you can create, gift and display with pride:

• Circle Scene of a Forest Campground
• The Lighthouse in the Dunes
• Baby Seals Playing in the Waves
• Rock Formation Landscape
• Misty Winter Forest
• Galaxy in a Jar
• Sun and Moon Reflection over the Sea
• Hilly Landscape with Mushrooms

This book will take you on a journey through artistic growth, a magical medium and the brilliant wonders of the world.
2023年6月29日 已读
简洁明了的一本小书,step by step guide 透析作者的这种简单画风格~
Imaginative Realism: How to Paint What Doesn't Exist (Volume 1) Goodreads 谷歌图书 豆瓣
作者: James Gurney Andrews McMeel Publishing 2009 - 10 其它标题: Imaginative Realism
From the award-winning artist, learn to see and shape the world in a way you never before imagined.

An award-winning fantasy artist and the creator of Dinotopia , James Gurney instructs and inspires in Imaginative Realism: How to Paint What Doesn't Exist . Renowned for his uncanny ability to incorporate amazing detail and imagination into stunningly realistic fantasy settings, James Gurney teaches budding artists and fans of fantasy art step-by-step the techniques that won him worldwide critical acclaim. This groundbreaking work examines the practical methods for creating believable pictures of imaginary subjects, such as dinosaurs, ancient Romans, alien creatures, and distant worlds.

Beginning with a survey of imaginative paintings from the Renaissance to the golden Age of American illustration, the book then goes on to explain not just techniques like sketching and composition, but also the fundamentals of believable world building including archaeology, architecture, anatomy for creatures and aliens, and fantastic engineering. It concludes with details and valuable advice on careers in fantasy illustration, including video game and film concept art and toy design.

More than an instruction book, this is the ultimate reference for fans of science fiction and fantasy illustration.

"Gurney's Imaginative Realism is a gold mine for artists who want to create images that sing with authority and delight the viewer with rich otherworldly visuals." --Erik Tiemens, concept artist, Star Wars: Episodes II and III

" Imaginative Realism is an indispensable, flawless reference for vision makers in any discipline to create their own imaginative realms." --Frank M. Costantino, ASAI, SI, FSAI, JARA, cofounder, American Society of Architectural Illustrators
2023年6月28日 已读
好有趣的一本书!作者 James Gurney 出过一套恐龙奇幻绘本故事书 Dinotopia,给 national graphics 画过很多封面。出于对大恐龙和 imaginative realism 这个主题的好奇去图书馆 request 了买这本书回来,图书馆超好飞速下单飞速喊我去 pick up。这本书挖到宝了,Gurney 把整本书分了13个主题细细讲来,studio 的 set up、sketch、历史和考古、人、恐龙、建筑、plein-air study、构图、绘画流程等等,每个主题下的小主题只占用两页,用大量他真实的创作过程里的素材图片详细的解释每一个专业词语和过程。从头到尾读一遍可以学到很多细节,随机翻着读也可以读到很有趣的内容。尤其喜欢 Gurney 在后记里写的这句话:As long as you look for inspiration from many different schools and eras of painting, your personal way of painting will come naturally to you, as naturally as your way of speaking or walking.
漫长的余生 豆瓣 Goodreads
8.2 (106 个评分) 作者: 罗新 北京日报出版社 2022 - 7
公元466年,宋明帝刘彧与在寻阳称帝的侄子刘子勋二帝并立,内战几乎波及刘宋全境,继而演变为与北魏之间的战争。生于南朝中层官僚家庭的王钟儿被卷入了这场战争,家破人亡,两年后被掠入平城皇宫成了一名普通宫女,时年三十岁。可是她的命运却偶然地与“子贵母死”制度发生了联系,身处权力斗争漩涡中的她,先后以宫女和比丘尼的身份成为抚育两代皇帝的关键人物,竟在北魏宫廷生活了五十六年之久。

罗新教授利用墓志等史料讲述了王钟儿漫长而又跌宕起伏的一生,并以她的眼睛去看她身处其中的时代,把皇帝、后妃、外戚、朝臣、宦官和宫女都还原为具体的人,看到他们面对权力时的喜悦、疑惧、张狂、绝望……随着王钟儿人生故事展开的,还有从献文帝、孝文帝到宣武帝、孝明帝近八十年的北魏历史,当然也有被时代的惊涛骇浪席卷的许许多多人。

我们关注遥远时代的普通人,是因为他们是真实历史的一部分,没有他们,历史就是不完整、不真切的。
2023年6月16日 已读
走马观花的翻完了,以王钟儿这个不到三十岁罚入北魏宫廷的女官在七八十岁去世时的墓志铭为轴心,一句一个绳结,串起了她活着的那些年岁北魏的历史。搞严肃历史的确实不一样啊,虽然是小人物的故事,挖掘尽了也没有太多事情可以讲,也不会乱讲编造出一篇跌宕起伏的甄嬛传;但是有很多旁征博引的故事可讲,重要的皇帝、皇后、皇太后、太子、高官显贵,也有传统历史研究不多着墨的宫女、内侍、皇家僧尼、太医——这一部分恰恰是动人的地方,他们的一生凝缩在一两百字的墓志铭中,时隔百年有人一字一句的由此读透看似平淡实则不亚于达官显贵们的波澜一生。不过话说北魏历史也太乱了,皇宫里这个杀了那个那个杀了这个,杀人好随意啊……
The Startup Wife Goodreads
Scribner 2021 - 7
<b>Newlyweds Asha and Cyrus build an app that replaces religious rituals and soon find themselves running one of the most popular social media platforms in the world.</b><br /><br />Meet Asha Ray.<br /> <br />Brilliant coder and possessor of a Pi tattoo, Asha is poised to revolutionize artificial intelligence when she is reunited with her high school crush, Cyrus Jones.<br /> <br />Cyrus inspires Asha to write a new algorithm. Before she knows it, she’s abandoned her PhD program, they’ve exchanged vows, and gone to work at an exclusive tech incubator called Utopia.<br /> <br />The platform creates a sensation, with millions of users seeking personalized rituals every day. Will Cyrus and Asha’s marriage survive the pressures of sudden fame, or will she become overshadowed by the man everyone is calling the new messiah?<br /> <br />In this gripping, blistering novel, award-winning author Tahmima Anam takes on faith and the future with a gimlet eye and a deft touch. Come for the radical vision of human connection, stay for the wickedly funny feminist look at startup culture and modern partnership. Can technology—with all its limits and possibilities—disrupt love?
2023年6月14日 已读
听完的,还蛮有趣的故事,听着熟悉的 tech words 在小说里频繁出现有种熟悉的陌生感。很喜欢小说最后的落脚点在女主找到自己的 power and voice,而不是在 relationship 的走向上 👏
100 Secrets of the Art World 谷歌图书
作者: Thomas Girst / Magnus Resch Koenig Books 2016
How does the art world work? What are its secrets? Zaha Hadid, Jeff Koons, Hans Ulrich Obrist and others offer advice and anecdotesWhat do major artists consider their best-kept secret? What is regarded as confidential knowledge among the key players of the global art market? In 100 Secrets of the Art World, the most powerful international individuals share their insights. Edited by Thomas Girst and Magnus Resch (author of the bestselling Management of Art Galleries), this indispensable and fun guide to contemporary art contains exclusive anecdotes, advice and personal stories from artists, museum directors, gallerists, auction house insiders, collectors and many more. Contributors include Jeff Koons, Zaha Hadid, Marina Abramovic, Ólafur Elíasson and John Baldessari, as well as directors and curators from the Centre Pompidou, the Guggenheim, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, The Museum of Modern Art, Tate Modern, the Nationalgalerie and elsewhere, including Philip Tinari, Hans Neuendorf, Matthew Slotover, Hans Ulrich Obrist, Daniel Birnbaum, Klaus Biesenbach, Jeffrey Deitch, Larry Gagosian, Alexandra Munroe and others. Thoughtful and often critical entries make this informative publication an entertaining read for anyone interested in contemporary art. Thomas Girst is an art historian and the worldwide Head of Cultural Engagement at the BMW Group. His most recent publications include The Duchamp Dictionary (2014) and Art, Literature, and the Japanese American Internment (2015). Magnus Resch is an author, art entrepreneur and lecturer at the University of St. Gallen. His most recent publications include the Art Collector Report (2015) and the bestseller Management of Art Galleries (2015).
2023年6月11日 已读
还算有趣的一本小书,邀请了据说是当前艺术界最重要的100个人分享了他们认为关于艺术的秘密。蛮有趣的是可以看到人们秉承着多么不一样甚至对立的信念在这个行业里,有人认为艺术最要紧的是保持秘密,有人认为当下的艺术已经没有秘密了;有人认为成功的艺术家需要 hardwork,有人认为艺术家成功与否和工作是否努力甚至天赋都毫无关系、完全取决于是否有商业资源。一些只言片语读起来也算有趣,可以随便翻翻~