A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.

In the tradition of Po Bronson and Paul Tough, journalist Jim Rendon delivers a deeply reported look at the life-changing implications of post-traumatic growth—an emerging field of psychological research that shows how the suffering caused by traumatic events can be harnessed as a force for self-improvement and success rather than destruction.
PTSD, or Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, is at the center of national conversation and a widely recognized psychological condition. But an equally valid, though lesser known outcome of trauma is post-traumatic growth. While many survivors suffer long-term emotional damage, over the last several decades psychologists have discovered that with the right circumstances and proper support, survivors can actually emerge from their trauma stronger, more focused, and with a new and clear vision for the future. In fact, as many as two-thirds of trauma survivors report positive changes—far more than suffer from PTSD.
But how can terrible events lead to remarkable and dramatic breakthroughs? Upside seeks to answer this question by taking a deep-dive look at this burgeoning new field of study. Comprised of interviews with leading researchers and dozens of trauma survivors, Rendon paints a vivid and comprehensive portrait of this groundbreaking field. With accessible language, prescriptive takeaways, and specific tools to promote positive responses to trauma, this book is perfect for anyone interested in the ways that traumatic events shape people. It is particularly useful for trauma survivors or their loved ones seeking a more hopeful and positive future.

This is the only money guide you’ll ever need.
That’s a bold claim, given there are already thousands of finance books on the shelves.
So what makes this one different?
Well, you won’t be overwhelmed with a bunch of ‘tips’ … or a strict budget (that you won’t follow).
You’ll get a step-by-step formula: open this account, then do this; call this person, and say this; invest money here, and not there. All with a glass of wine in your hand.
This book will show you how to create an entire financial plan that is so simple you can sketch it on the back of a serviette … and you’ll be able to manage your money in 10 minutes a week.

Do you have a hard time paying attention or staying still? Do you sometimes get yelled at for talking in class or moving around? Do you often zone out? Lose assignments? Fall behind in school? Have trouble controlling your behavior? Maybe you have ADD or ADHD. These are labels grown-ups use to understand and help kids with these types of challenges. If you've been labeled ADD or ADHD, this book is for you. Look inside to find: What ADD and ADHD mean - and don't mean. Ways to make each day go better at home, at school, and with friends. How to deal with strong feelings like anger, worry, and sadness. The lowdown on medicine many kids take for ADD or ADHD. The dish on foods that can help you manage your ADD or ADHD. Fun quizzes that will help you remember what you're learning. And much more This book was written especially for you. But you might want to share it with a parent or another caring adult. Talk it over together and try some of the activities. Meanwhile, know you're not alone. Lots of kids have ADD or ADHD. With a little effort, they have learned to succeed. So can you!...John F. Taylor, Ph.D., has created many materials for young people with ADD and ADHD and their families. He is the founder and president of ADD Plus and the father of three children with ADD.

This is the first text of its kind to link neuroscience and therapy - a must-have for all therapists. A revision of the best-selling mental health book, this groundbreaking text explores the recent revolution in psychotherapy that has brought an understanding of the social nature of people's brains to a therapeutic context. Louis Cozolino is a master at synthesizing neuroscientific information and demonstrating how it applies to psychotherapy practice.

“智商测试出现一百年来，始终笼罩着权威而神秘的光环。只需一次考试，人们便被划分为三六九等，上重点校、找好工作、晋升职位、生养孩子、移民他乡……曾经全都由此决定，它改变了人们的生活轨迹，甚至决定了人们的生育权与生存权。在20世纪初，美国看管智力低下人群的收容机构越来越多，并强制这些人绝育。同一时期，在埃利斯岛工作的美国公共卫生署的医生们则成为抵御外国智力缺陷人群入侵的第一道防线。“一战”期间美国对170万人次前去应征的新兵进行了智商测验，随后，这套试卷被用于美国大学的入学考试，成为大学的门槛。在20世纪三四十年代，德国纳粹分子曾以智力缺陷的名义屠杀了大多数做过测试的残疾人，并由此扯到种族问题。
本书首次讲述了智商测试的历史由来及其原理方法，介绍了近百年的发展历程和应用情况，剖析了智商测试的真面目，探讨了它是如何渗透到整个人类世界的。本书没有充斥着复杂的公式和图表，也没有针对各种数据的冗长解析，书中只有一个个鲜为人知的生动故事。智商测试自诞生以来，始终争议不断：它测试的是“智力”？是综合心理能力？或者像埃德温·波林（EdwinBoring）所说的那样，纯粹是“做智商测试的能力”？其实就某种意义而言，我们的各种升学考试又何尝不是一种智商测试。对于我们的教育体制和人才评判，本书颇具有启迪意义。

Mentalizing - the ability to understand oneself and others by inferring the mental states that lie behind overt behavior - develops during childhood within the context of a secure attachment relationship. It is crucial to self-regulation and constructive, intimate relationships. Failure to retain mentalizing, particularly in the midst of emotional interactions, is a core problem in borderline personality disorder and results in severe emotional fluctuations, impulsivity, and vulnerability to interpersonal and social interactions. Mentalization-based treatment for borderline personality disorder is a 'How to Do It' book outlining a clinically proven treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder. Containing illustrative clinical examples, it details precisely how to develop and implement treatment and is a companion to the highly successful book Psychotherapy for Borderline Personality Disorder - mentalization based treatment. This practical guide explains how to treat borderline patients by helping them develop a more robust mentalizing capacity within the context of an attachment relationship. It provides the practitioner with everything they need to know about how to practise mentalizing treatment in day patient and out-patient settings. Enough theory is provided to orientate the clinician and there is step-by-step practical advice on the assessment of mentalizing and interpersonal relationships, how to structure treatment, the use of basic mentalizing interventions and how to apply them, as well as information on what not to do. In addition, it includes a check list to be used in the assessment of mentalizing and a self-rating exercise for practitioners to evaluate their adherence to mentalizing.

This is the definitive guide to counselling adolescents. Now in its fourth edition, this bestseller has introduced thousands of trainees and practitioners to the theory, principals, skills and techniques of proactively counselling this client group.
New to the fourth edition:
- A new chapter on the contemporary context of adolescence, exploring the challenges, opportunities and influences facing young people today.
- A new chapter on the use of technology when counselling young people
- Useful links to relevant online resources at the end of each chapter
- Updates to all chapters reflecting more recent understanding, research and literature
- Additional case studies to help trainees apply theory and strategies to practice
A multi-disciplinary book which recognises that a diversity of needs requires a diversity of approaches and skills, it uses case studies and examples to demonstrate this in a variety of settings. It is essential reading for trainees and practitioners in counselling, social work, the allied health professions and education.

从8个令人惊奇的问题开始，带你理解迷一样的人类行为，以全新的眼光看待我们自身。
跟着作者不断解谜，如侦探小说般神经的逻辑，彻底明白我们日常的心理与行为的机制。
【人类竟是如此神奇】听声辨位、梦中杀人、左右互搏、多重人格、心灵操控……这样小说般的情节都是真的！本书展现了很多人类超乎自己想象的行为。每章都从一个惊奇问题开始，带领读者不断解谜，充满阅读推理作品的快感。
【神经科学一本通】覆盖神经科学的各领域和多种方法，习惯、记忆、梦境、疏忽、幻觉等等日常心理机制都得到了解释，在快乐阅读中了解人脑和人类行为的方方面面，以全新的眼光看待人类自身。
【帮你生活更轻松】经常回到家才想起路上该买的东西没买？是否知道要减肥的话不能一边吃东西一边看电视？怎么抵御商家在不知不觉中对自己的剁手诱惑？还有躺在床上就能健身这种好事？假笑识破率还能提高？……理解了这些心理和行为的机制，就能更有意识地在生活中躲开陷阱，抄到近路！
《神经的逻辑》令人大开眼界，它既轻松有趣，又是极富启发性的研究，也解释了我们为什么会做那些最为奇怪的事。斯滕伯格撬开了我们的心灵，解释了脑的运作方式，对一系列诸如感知、习惯、催眠、语言、学习等话题都给出了真知灼见。就如何面对人类大脑的无意识逻辑这一问题，本书为读者提供了专业性的指导。读罢掩卷，我对“我这个人到底是谁”有了更多的体悟。
——列奥纳德· 莫洛迪诺夫，《大设计》第二作者斯滕伯格对脑的怪行背后隐秘逻辑的解释，是神经科学界一支全新的声音。
——承现峻，《连接组》作者本书每章读起来都像侦探小说，每一页都闪耀着作者对神经病学的热情。它同时还非常适合哲学家和心理学家，正能治疗他们的“神经元嫉妒症”。
——V. S. 拉马钱德兰，《讲故事的脑》作者如果你想知道人们为什么用不理性的方式思考和行动，想为此找出合理回答，那本书就该是你的第一本书。
——迈克尔· 舍默，怀疑论者学会创始人我们解释事情时通常有一些叙事套路，而本书却是对这些叙事套路背后真正的神经回路进行丰富详尽的研究。作者破解、打开了脑中的“黑箱”，检查其中并行的有意识和无意识两套系统，探究从做梦、自动模式行为到记忆、幻觉、创伤等一系列问题。
——《自然》杂志
从最怪异的梦和幻觉，到精神分裂症与多重人格，脑是各式各样怪念怪行的肇事者。从外部看，这些现象常显得“疯狂”，但其实它们都有逻辑可循，这套逻辑使我们能创造经验、保全自我。
无论是哈欠会传染、虚假记忆、不饿却进食、色情片盛行、感同身受等常见的行为、心理状况和情感，还是清醒梦、濒死体验、盲人看到的景色、梦游杀人等惊奇案例，《神经的逻辑》都为我们娓娓道来。以这些现象为契机，斯滕伯格博士深入脑和神经系统的内部，揭示并解读脑与神经中理性的有意识系统和幽深的无意识系统，解释两套系统怎样造就了我们或平常或怪异的行为。弄清楚脑与神经系统的运作模式和逻辑，不仅可以改变我们对心理疾病和超自然体验的看法，也会让我们更加了解自身的隐秘之处，做出更正确的决策。

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《How To Talk So Kids Can Learn(如何说 孩子才肯学)》独创性的采用小说形式，主人公是一位经常遇到问题的年轻教师，她与同事以及父母志愿者一起，通过不断的探寻和讨论，努力寻找到一种与学生沟通的更有效的方法。独一无二的沟通技巧、实用的对话场景和令人一目了然的卡通漫画，让老师和家长很快便能领会如何帮助孩子面对每天在学习上出现的问题。比如，第一章讨论了如何处理干扰学习的情绪。作者认为，我们想要让孩子行为正确，首先必须接受他们的感受。卡通漫画形象生动地展现了许多老师和家长对待孩子的错误方式，同时也给出了会让孩子有令人满意回应的新方法。那些错误的说话方式竟然是我们大多数家长与老师经常都在使用的，而推荐的新方法往往都既实用又灵验，让家长和老师忍不住立刻仿效。《如何说孩子才肯学》的突破和创新之处在于，在激励孩子进行自我监督、自我约束和热爱学习方面，给出一套切实可行的方法，让孩子乐于接受家长和老师对他们施加的影响。
The leading experts on parent-child communication show parents and teachers how to motivate kids to learn and succeed in school. Using the unique communication strategies, down-to-earth dialogues, and delightful cartoons that are the hallmark of their multimillion-copy bestseller How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish show parents and teachers how to help children handle the everyday problems that interfere with learning. This breakthrough book demonstrates how parents and teachers can join forces to inspire kids to be self-directed, self-disciplined, and responsive to the wonders of learning.
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Conflict Management is and easy-to-read and high-powered tool for understanding and managing conflict situations. Conflict can spiral out of control, but if you understand how the spiral works you may be able to prevent it from even beginning.
In this book you will find many options for managing conflict, including:
* planning;
* goal setting;
* compromise;
* mediation.
Expert communication Baden Eunson also takes an in-depth look at negotiation skills. He offers a visual and fresh approach to the world of strategies and tactics, negotiation styles, the importance of listening and questioning skills, the reasons why the location of negotiation can affect its outcome, and why the phrase 'win-win' is not a cliché but a technique for success.

The culmination of master psychiatrist Dr. Irvin D. Yalom's more than thirty-five years in clinical practice, The Gift of Therapy is a remarkable and essential guidebook that illustrates through real case studies how patients and therapists alike can get the most out of therapy. The bestselling author of Love's Executioner shares his uniquely fresh approach and the valuable insights he has gained—presented as eighty-five personal and provocative "tips for beginner therapists," including: Let the patient matter to you Acknowledge your errors Create a new therapy for each patient Do home visits (Almost) never make decisions for the patient Freud was not always wrong A book aimed at enriching the therapeutic process for a new generation of patients and counselors, Yalom's Gift of Therapy is an entertaining, informative, and insightful read for anyone with an interest in the subject.

Have you ever stepped back to watch what really goes on when your children play? As psychologist Lawrence J. Cohen points out, play is children's way of exploring the world, communicating deep feelings, getting close to those they care about, working through stressful situations, and simply blowing off steam. That's why "playful parenting" is so important and so successful in building strong, close bonds between parents and children. Through play we join our kids in "their" world-and help them to - Express and understand complex emotions- Break through shyness, anger, and fear- Empower themselves and respect diversity- Play their way through sibling rivalry - Cooperate without power struggles From eliciting a giggle during baby's first game of peekaboo to cracking jokes with a teenager while hanging out at the mall, "Playful Parenting "is a complete guide to using play to raise confident children. Written with love and humor, brimming with good advice and revealing anecdotes, and grounded in the latest research, this book" "will make you laugh even as it makes you wise in the ways of being an effective, enthusiastic parent.
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A must-have resource for anyone who lives or works with young kids, with an introduction by Adele Faber, coauthor of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, the international mega-bestseller The Boston Globe dubbed “The Parenting Bible.”
For over thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele’s daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk’s powerful communication skills to children ages two to seven.
Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents and a broad variety of professionals. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and fly-on-the-wall discussions from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the young kids in your life.
What do you do with a little kid who…won’t brush her teeth…screams in his car seat…pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables…throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized according to common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential emergency first-aid manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.
This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old. And, it will help little kids grow into self-reliant big kids who are cooperative and connected to their parents, teachers, siblings, and peers.